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confusin... not sure bff ?? - June 11th 2009, 09:25 PM

Ok so we've been best friends for 4yrs nw, n we c eachother like all the time at least twice a week.
But I haven't For the past 3-4weeks seen her very much, Like I'll txt asking her if she wants to hang out or sumthing n she's like "ummm..mayb"(n neva does) or "cba" jus stupid ridiculous reasons why she wont, N wen she txt's me she's realli vague.
The thing is when we c our boyfriends (my bf is her brother) she's quite happy to come hang out. N she'll have a laff n a Joke, be like we used to be. We used to be realli close but just recently it's like she's a million miles away... We told eachother everything n
I dont get it cos we haven't had a fight or anything to unsettle it all.
Everythings just fallen apart..........
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Re: confusin... not sure bff ?? - June 12th 2009, 02:46 AM

It could be that she just needs some space, or is pursuing other friendships. I wouldn't be too concerned, it's normal for friendships to have the same fluctuations in affection that relationships do.

If you'd like, though, find her and (in person) ask her if anything is going on at school, at home, with life in general, etc. The key is to ask question, not throw out accusations, and to remain open-minded, not questioning her answers. If she doesn't report anything as wrong, then you could comment that you guys don't seem to hang out as often anymore, and ask why that is.
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