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It's like I can't balance this - July 17th 2009, 01:17 AM

I don't know what's up lately.

With my poms team...I've always felt remote and distant from the girls. I just didn't show them who I was until this year...and now I've started to get really close to them.

But I feel like as I'm getting closer to the girls on my squad...I'm not being as close with my regular school friends. It's important to say that I don't think it's related. But idk...I'm just feeling pretty crap lately. I feel more that it's karma ish you know...that I have to pick one or the other. And I couldn't.

Idk...maybe I'm just ranting. But I feel so lonely and I'm not sure who's even my friend anymore because no one seems to call me anymore and ugh I just feel blahish All I do is sit at home playing solitare for hours and I hate this.

Ok yes...this is deffiently a rant thread.

I'm just so unsure guys...I just don't know why I'm feeling so horrible


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Re: It's like I can't balance this - July 17th 2009, 02:29 AM

Hey Kaila,

I think that it's a good thing that you are expanding your friendships with the girls on your team. Sometimes it takes a while to get close and start talking to them as much as your other friends. Just keep in mind that even though it can be tough to keep two groups of friends, you don't need to choose one over the other.

Instead of waiting for your friends to give you a call, why not try to phone them? Call some of them up and find out if they want to hang out or go some place with you. It could be that your other friends are doing the exact same thing you are! They may be sitting around and waiting for your call.

If you feel up to it, maybe you could even try to invite some people from your team and some of your other friends to hang out at the same time. Introduce your other friends to the girls on the team and maybe you could all become friends. It may be a bit awkward at first, but it would only take a little while for everyone to get comfortable.

Getting out and having some fun might help you stop feeling so badly lately. Try getting out and doing some things, even if you just go out for a walk for a bit. Add more to your day and plan day trips and activities for yourself or a few friends.

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Re: It's like I can't balance this - July 17th 2009, 04:51 PM

Alright thank you Nat... I guess I've just been too down to ask anyone to do things lately. but I should...so thanks for the advice.

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Re: It's like I can't balance this - July 17th 2009, 08:16 PM

Hi Kaila,

I'm going to leave this thread open for now because I have a feeling that others may have some more ideas. If there's a problem with that, then let me know.

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Re: It's like I can't balance this - July 19th 2009, 02:48 AM

Alright sure thing. Suggestions guys? lol


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Re: It's like I can't balance this - July 19th 2009, 06:32 PM

Hi Kaila
I have had the same kind of feeling,, im new here because i didnt know what to do with myself,, i have been dancing for the last 2 years,, but i have become closer to them then my friends,, that ive known since 5-6 years old,, but they arent there for me anymore and im not completly sure of what i should do,, but i alsoo have a bf,, and i spend alot of my time around him which i have also felt that this is helpin,, im not so sure of what im ment to be doing,,things just seem to be gettin better out of school but then inside of school things are just rough and tough,, Kaila would you have nay suggestions of what you have done that i can do?x
   
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