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My overtly favouritist cousin *rant* - July 28th 2009, 09:09 PM

She's just so goddamn favouritist. It's sickening, it makes me want to cry. i don't keep things from her, I can talk to her about pretty much anything. The same with my other two best friends. Yet as long as she's got her bestie, I can just go to hell for all she gives a damn. She doesn't hide it at all, it just makes me feel like crap. and when she gets round to reading this, this is why i prefer some of my other friends to you.


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Re: My overtly favouritist cousin *rant* - July 31st 2009, 06:42 PM

Hi Jessy,

It really isn't fair when you feel you've put more into a relationship than someone else. I think that having a close relationship with your family is a good idea, and it would be better for your cousin to be more open with you.

Maybe it is just difficult for your cousin to open up to anyone besides her best friend. Could she just have a hard time talking or prefers to spend time in small groups?

I think that it is still great that she listens to you and is there for you. Maybe you could try inviting her to spend some time with just you and her and ask her if there is anything wrong. She could possibly have something on her mind that she doesn't feel comfortable talking about.

I'm really sorry that your cousin is making you feel this way. It's really unfair after all you have done.

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