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Exclamation Mom cheated with dad's brother - July 30th 2009, 04:58 AM

I have always known my mom was different from the rest of my family Jesus I've recently learned a lot more. My dad is 1 of 12 and my mom is 1 of 6. We never really go to family parties and gatherings and I always knew there was tension between my mom and my dad's family. I am 15 and 3 years ago I woke up really early and I went downstairs and in the bathroom was a bag of weed and a pipe and EZ wideners. They couldn't be my dad's he was a cop and i just couldn't see it. They had to be my mom''s. I didn't say anything about it to anyone, I mean, maybe it was a dream, right? Wrong. We moved last year and i was looking for something in the laundry room and I found it again. Then she quit smoking cigarettes after 20 years so I thought it was over. That happened 2 more times, each in different places in the house, each by accident. A couple months ago I found this old notebook and I started reading it and wow was that a mistake it was like my mom's journal and in it it said how she cheated on my dad with the carpet guy and my dad's old partner at work. Then the other day my cousin told me how my mom cheated on my dad with his brother after my 2nd brother was born. My mom and him were both high and she seduced him My dad had a vasectomy after that too. Then my mom had a baby. Supposedly, she was born due to a failed vasectemy, but what if it's my uncles baby. I mean my sister was always different than the rest of us: not as smart, and not as skinny. Shes chunky, like my uncle. I don't know how to handle this, at all.
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Re: Mom cheated with dad's brother - August 2nd 2009, 11:03 PM


This is a very hard situation, now you should try confronting your mother or ask her a question that relates to the situation, e.g "Would you ever cheat on dad?"

Try talking to her because this is definately unfair on both you and your dad.

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Re: Mom cheated with dad's brother - August 4th 2009, 03:54 PM

This is a pretty difficult position to be in.
It is possible for vasectamy to fail so it is a plausible fact and could be true.
I would probably question my mum about the weed that you've found around the house, it's not as if you've found it once, you've found it on numerous occassions and this kind of suggests that she could be doing it on a regular basis.

I don't really know what to say about asking about your sister because if that turns out to just be something went wrong with your dads vesectamy or something you could end up making a fuss out of nothing and cause a family argument that could be unnecessary.
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