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Post So now she doesn't want me to visit... - September 22nd 2009, 02:55 AM

My sister is at college thousands of miles away. She left in August and so I decided that I would save up enough money to visit her in October (I have a week off of school). So I worked a TON at the restaurant I waitress at, did some babysitting jobs here and there, and I haven't spent $1 in over a month; which for a teenage girl is extremely hard.

After raising over $700 to visit her and convincing my parents to let me go, I was going to buy my ticket tonight. Before my dad could click "buy" he texted my sister to see if the dates were ok. She texted back saying that I shouldn't come; she has to study, there is nothing to do, and it is not the best environment.

Anyone else sense the sting of rejection?

So now I am thoroughly pissed off and I don't know what to do. I started by angrily crying for 30 minutes, listening to music, and now venting on here. Any suggestions on how I should spend my rejected plane ticket money?


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Re: So now she doesn't want me to visit... - September 28th 2009, 01:08 PM

give ur sister another chance??
let her know that you saved up for this and worked hard and all that!!!
... ask her WHY she doesnt want you to come, it's not studying, that's a cover-up excuse. find the real reason.
.. if ur open with her, adn if u've been close, then let her know that god this hurt like hell.
if that works out, make sure she's the one that tells ur dad ur going..

and if all that doesnt work out.
it's ok dnt be upset- ur sister can never hate u, it's a phase, maybe she's just settling in, and maybe there r things there tht she wouldnt want u to see. maybe she thinks it'll just upset u more than not wanting u to cum..

.. lol if u really want advice abt how to spend ur money, we'll think of sumthing!!
   
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