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My mom knows everything.... - October 15th 2009, 07:47 PM

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My mom knows EVERYTHING.... She knows that I'm bisexual, she knows that I cut myself, she knows I've thought of suicide... So yeah, she found out I was bisexual, and she talked to me about it, and she was basically saying that she thought it was just a phase and that' I'd grow out of it. Then, durring that conversation she saw the scars on my thighs, but I told her it was just from soccer. Then, like a day later she came to me and asked me if I was still hurting myself, at first I denied it, but then just told her. She asked me why and how. Then, she took the scissors I use and cut herself with them(not bad) to show me what it looked like(as if I didn't already know I was a freak...) Then, she kept telling me how wrong and gross it was and how much it upset her. Then she told me that if I had more God in my life( I have a lot of God in my life, just in a different way then she does) that I wouldn't have ever done this. Then she asked if I even wanted to be Catholic, when I responeded by telling her I'd rather just be plain Christian, she told me I had no choice but to be Catholic! Then, she told me how I only look at things in a negative manner and that I have a good life and shouldn't cut, and she doesn't understnad why I would turn to that. Then she accused me of pushing her away even though neither of us has been working hard to stay close. So, now she knows basically everything, and is sending me to therapy. I'm SOOO glad I got to talk to somebody, but something about me wishes she did/said durring the convos made me feel worse then I already felt........:-/
   
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Re: My mom knows everything.... - October 18th 2009, 07:11 PM

Ohmigosh. Hon I'm sorry that all happened at once! But I'm glad your gonna be getting help for your cutting. Your Mom kinda came across a little strong though. I'm giving you a really big hug right now. [HUG]


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