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Re: Can't stand my dad... - January 28th 2009, 03:19 PM

Can anyone please help? Its a really messed up situation...
   
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Re: Can't stand my dad... - January 28th 2009, 03:31 PM

You may not believe me but I have been in a similar situation. Have you ever talked to your mom about it?
   
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Re: Can't stand my dad... - January 28th 2009, 05:51 PM

Hey there,

I am very sorry I didn't get a chance to get to this sooner.

I think you should still try and talk to your mom about the situation, preferably when your dad is not around. Try and get her to listen to how negatively your dad is affecting you and how bad it's getting. She may be in denial, but it's definitely worth a shot to talk to her.

If your dad ever assaults you, do not hesitate to phone the authorities, okay? This is very important. What he is doing is not right and you should not have to deal with it.

Is there a possibility that your family could try family counseling? That may help discuss your dad's anger and how the rest of the family feel about it.

I think that it would be a good idea to do your best and try to get some work experience. Find some stability in a job and move out when you can. You are definitely old enough to live on your own, you probably just need a stable income. That would help you get away from your father's anger and the negative environment. It would probably help your depression too, because no doubt your dad is probably causing you emotional stress.

If you want to talk some more about this, please send me a PM.

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Re: Can't stand my dad... - January 28th 2009, 10:13 PM

I understand, I really do http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/showthread.php?t=1583
all I do is count the days till I leave. Sorry I give really bad advice but at least you know that your not alone in this situation


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