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was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 10:26 AM

so me and mum have been arguing for ages now over something she misheard me say. apparently i said that she don't support me when i dident say that , we were having an argument about her making me come in too early and then it esculated into my exam revision timetable and she said that i dont need a crapy timetable to revise when actualy my school gcse mentor said i should and so i goes "all i want is support" meaning yes she does support me but thats all i want at this time but she took it the wrong way. i tried telling her but she just wont listen. well anyway this morning i felt really really rubbish and i told mum i dont think i could go to school because i feel that bad and she said i had to go so i got upset and angry and screamed at her "you just dont care" and then she yelled at the top of her voice "I WISH YOU WOULD SHUT THE F**K UP , YOU SAY I DONT F**KING SUPPORT YOU , YOU SAY I DON'T F**KING CARE , I DO F**KING EVERYTHING FOR YOU , INFACT , GET OUT MY F**KING HOUSE AND DONT COME BACK!!!!!!!!!" so i left the house to go to school in tears and i came back after school and she isn't in at the moment. what do i do when she comes back? i tryed ringing her all day but she wont answer her phone , i texted her saying i'm really sorry but she wont text back. she scares me and i know that everytime i come back from school an arguments going to break out. i'm sick of it and its got to the point were i'm scared to be around her because one day i know she is going to hit me. i just dont want to live here anymore. am i the one being harsh or are we both as bad as eachother?


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 10:36 AM

no, i don't think you were too harsh. you said that she didn't care in the heat of an argument, and what she said back to you was a lot worse. i'd say, don't do anything when she comes back.. if you've already tried to apologise and she won't accept it, thats her problem. leave it to her to come and talk to you.


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 10:45 AM

Thanks. it will take her a good month to be able to talk to me again. like the times she caught me self harming she woudent talk to me for months on end. she doesn't easily forgive people. Meh she duz my head in so i don't want to speak to her anymore.


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 10:51 AM

parents can be like that, its so annoying! she probably doesn't know what to say to you, so she just ignores it and pretends its not happening. and as for the self harm in the past, most people don't know how to deal with it, and it can be especially hard for parents, not that, that gives her an excuse to treat you like that though.


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 11:27 AM

mhmm. the last time she caught me self harming on my arms , she dragged me into the car screaming names at me and took me to the gym to find my dad and shouted at me to show him and everyone looked! i have never been so humiliated but i'm kinda over self harm now so tis all good in a way (Y)


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 11:28 AM

oh gosh, that sounds horrible! its good to hear you're doing well with getting over the self harm though! :]


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 11:31 AM

mhmm thanks to my form tutor .


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 11:40 AM

Ugh. I think we have the same MOTHER! =0
I agree with Elle, though. Don't kiss her ass for putting you down. Just ignore her for a bit. I mean, she's way way over dramatic. I hate that.


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Re: was i too harsh? - February 3rd 2009, 11:50 AM

wow and i thought my mum was an individual! well i'm glad someone out there feels like i do =D. iagree where you said nto to kiss her arse. i'll just let her get over her paddys in future.


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