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I'm such a supid idiot! - February 3rd 2009, 02:54 PM

OK. So me and Katie are having the biggest fight we've ever had...and I'm the one who fucked everything up!

Well it all started about 3 weeks ago. Katie was acting...different around me. I don't know if it was because I cut again or what. She was kind of snippy and a little rude, but then about a minute later she'd go back to being fun and nice again. and then she'd go back to being rude again, and so on and so forth.

Well I finally decided to address it last Monday. I told her how I felt, but she didn't seem to get the message. So last night I wrote her a note telling her exactly how I feel. I also added in there that we may need some space. I also added in parenthesis maybe permanently. I wasn't even thinking when I wrote that, and I had just realized that I had wrote that after I gave her the note.

I felt horrible, and whenever she was ignoring me in study hall, I began to bawl. Then I started writing Katie an apology note and gave it to her when I saw her in the hallway.

Then she told me she didn't hate me but was really REALLY pissed at me and really sad that I wrote that stuff. I understood and told her that she had every right to be royally pissed at me.

But people are getting in the middle of things and now I'm afraid that me and Katie's friendship might be over. I don't want that to happen! Why do I ruin everything?!

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Re: I'm such a supid idiot! - February 3rd 2009, 09:16 PM

Hey Audrey,

I don't think you royally screwed up. Give it a few more days and maybe try talking to her again. Sometimes, people just need time and space to cool off.

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Re: I'm such a supid idiot! - February 3rd 2009, 10:20 PM

Hey, Audrey.
You didn't mean to ruin a friendship.
Unfortunately, confronting people sometimes can lead to things like this.
But I'm sure if you just let everyone cool off for awhile, things will get better.
Your friend said herself that she doesn't hate you right now. She probably just needs some space, which is what you suggested in your note to begin with. I'm sure things will be fine, just breathe. xx

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