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Don't know what do - February 10th 2009, 10:49 AM

I used to have more friends, and people that I liked and care about( specially one person, that i considered a good friend), and then, with no reason, they start to ignoring me slowly, stop talking to me that much or invite me to something, until we start to become like strangers. We don't talk, on the street, just say "hi", nothing more, not even by IM, that we used to talk a lot.

I know that people have other friends, get new ones and they "move on".
Because of how much people move on and got other friends, and probably don't even remember me, and because some people took advantage of me, using me when they needed something and only for that, I got maybe tougher(i don't really know what word to use), on this matter and starting not caring about this and about them and feel angry with them and with me, and move on with my life. But sometimes I just miss those times...
I think im to proud to start a conversation with them( some of the ones that don't talk much with me anymore) , because of all this, because i felt that sometimes, some of them, found me annoying, and because i don't know what to say, I just don't know what to talk about, the last time i talked with the person i said in the beginning, I just didn't know what to say. And now I don't know if I should even start a conversation...

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Re: Don't know what do - February 10th 2009, 08:23 PM

Hey there,

I think, from what it sounds like, that you do know you need to start a conversation. Whether it's with your old friends or your new friends, it doesn't matter. I think it's time to loosen up a little and talk to people. Maybe phone up a few old friends and a few new ones and get them together for a movie.

Communication and invitations go both ways. Falling outs do happen, but if it's just because of lack of communication, then that is easily solved.

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Re: Don't know what do - February 11th 2009, 07:22 AM

hey.

as nat said.. starting a conversation is definitely a good way of making new friends.. and no matter what, keep in mind.. TRUE friends are to be treasured because they NEVER leave. you can tell when someone is a true friend because they stick with you through times thick and thin

my advice to you is not to worry because no matter what, there's more to gain from talking to someone new than to lose. once you make a true friend... they'll stay forever. remember that they're very supportive and once you start hanging out with them.. you'll definitely wish that they stay forever.

and they definitely do

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Re: Don't know what do - February 11th 2009, 12:16 PM

Thank you for your support
The good part that all of that, with people leaving and ignoring me, is that i got to know the true friends, the ones that staid.
But, my doubt is that if i should try and talk with one of those that "left", one that i used to hang out and talk a lot, because sometimes i miss those times, but, I think im too proud for that, because i didn't do anything , they just walk away.
   
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Re: Don't know what do - February 11th 2009, 02:40 PM

you know, you can always reconnect with them by talking to them again you can do this, i believe in you!


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