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need help to uh........de-confuse myself - May 20th 2010, 10:56 AM

i am totally confused. there is this gang of best friends that i hang with like everyone. we are 5 friends and we consider ourselves as best friends and there is a girl in the gang that i'm more close to - jennifer. but that's not the problem. everyone knows that we are more close to eachother. but the problem is that there is this girl in my school bus. i don't wanna tell her name but let's call her tez. she's my neighbour. and we have been friends since first grade and i feel more close to her. she knows a lot about me. i can always tell her anything i want and she tells me almost everything. and sometimes i feel that she is my best friend not jennifer. i know a lot about jennifer but she knows nothing about me. tez does. tez is the one of the coolest. her gang's totally cool. but we have this bond. but sometimes she's so irresponsible. i'm always trying to help her. more than how i try to help my friends. but she never do anything back. she changes her decisions at the last minute and she doesn't even call me if there is any such changes. at the end of the day, im doing everything for her but she's not repaying. but i just can't stop or forget her. she's my special friend. no matter what. what should i do? its soo complicated. i need help. if u need to know anything more, just tell me.
   
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Re: need help to uh........de-confuse myself - May 20th 2010, 01:19 PM

Wow, you've got those friends but i understand where you are coming from but you should try to talk to her and say how you feel, and ask why she isn't repaying you but dont set it at wrong time as she could misunderstand you so you should try it in a place that is calm and at right time.

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Re: need help to uh........de-confuse myself - May 21st 2010, 05:19 AM

i know, it's just that I don't wanna lose anyone. I feel myself when I am with Tez but I am always pretending to be someone else when I am with my friends. But I don't wanna lose anyone. My friends are loyal to me. At least I think they are but they just don't know the real me. It's like they are never interested in what I like. I guess, my likes are different from them. But I feel bad. I feel like I'm betraying my friends cuz I have my heart set upon Tez. And I think her situation's the same. She also have a pack of friends. I just wanna know, is what I am doing, right?
   
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