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Keep a friend? - May 25th 2010, 06:28 PM

So basically... last year, I dated this kid. We then broke up, and he stayed my best friend until now. Recently, he kissed me, and it was my first kiss. Then the next day, I found out that back when we dated, he cheated on me. I wanted to give him a second chance, and date him again... but I have this friend, and she said, if I date him, she won't be my friend anymore. So I'm thinking I'm not going to date him... but even if I don't... I'm not sure I want to be friends with her anymore. I think she's proven herself to be a bad friend. So I'm not really sure what to do.................. should I still be her friend, or drop her?


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Re: Keep a friend? - May 25th 2010, 06:46 PM

If you really want to date him than date him if your “friend” told you she wouldn’t be your friend anymore I think you need to start looking for real friends. I can tell you that I don’t like the guy my sister is going out with but that doesn’t mean I won’t talk to her anymore I told her I didn’t like him and why if she doesn’t want to listen to be I respect that and respect the fact that she is with him. If he cheated on the past I wouldn’t date him but that is just me, if he can prove he has changed give him a chance. It seems to me like your only obstacle is your friend.


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Re: Keep a friend? - May 25th 2010, 10:53 PM

I'm letting her go.


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Re: Keep a friend? - May 25th 2010, 11:10 PM

Your "friend" doesn't really seem like a real friend to me. She could tell you she doesnt like him, but there is no reason to not stay friends with you, that's like back in elementary school what we used to do. Talk to her about it, if she doesn't understand, I'd say find some different friends.





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Re: Keep a friend? - May 25th 2010, 11:21 PM

I can't figure this out. I really fucking can't. I'm so... argh. I can't do this


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