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Platonic Relationships - June 5th 2010, 02:47 AM

Haha, I miss her so much.
Peyton and I were so close, it hurts to think about it now.

We spent everyday together.
She came to me when she needed to cry.
When I was gone she was distraught.
I loved her as a friend,
she was the first girl I said "I love you" to.

She had a boyfriend.
Fuck him, I used to say.

I wrote her poems, we held hands.
The first girl I ever liked I think.
She told me everything,
we talked about everything.
She put up with who I was and really accepted me.
She always insisted I was her only friend at our school.

It makes me happy and sad thinking of all of this.

I ruined such a good thing.

We fought.
I accused her of not truly caring for me.
I don't know what the fuck I was talking about.
She didn't listen when I needed to talk.
She was busy; she was still the best friend I had ever had.
She danced, had a 4.0, parents constantly hindered her life.
I guess I was just selfish.

I told her to fuck herself, and that I didn't care anymore.
I promised myself to never speak to her again, was what truly made me do all this.
I remembering sitting there with her, staying silent for 10 minutes thinking if I actually wanted to do this.

I used to be angry.
Then it hit me what I had lost.
I tried apologizing twice, I kept trying to fix it.
but
she said she couldn't stop being angry with me and hurt.
She dismissed me.

Peyton was all I was living for
and now
she's gone.

I feel so empty.
Has anyone felt this way?
What do I do now?
   
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Re: Platonic Relationships - June 5th 2010, 08:14 AM

Learn from your mistakes and move on. You could try re-connecting with her every now and then (ex. around the holidays, on her birthday), just to let her know you still care and would like to give things another shot... but if you push too hard or too often, you'll just scare her away for good.






   
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Re: Platonic Relationships - June 5th 2010, 10:57 PM

Print this out & give it them.
Show them that you really care & be please remeber that they are probly really hurting too!
Try to make other friends as well.
   
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Re: Platonic Relationships - June 6th 2010, 06:12 PM

Worst part is: school is ending. I won't see her again I think. I don't know if I can take that
   
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Re: Platonic Relationships - June 11th 2010, 05:54 PM

You can take it. Life goes on man.
   
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Re: Platonic Relationships - June 12th 2010, 02:27 AM

Next time, don't make assumptions or tell someone to go fuck themselves. Try not to get so angry the next time, learn to be more understanding and patient. From this, I'm sure you've already learned that.
The best thing you can do for yourself now is move on and forget about her, as best as you can, and someone else will come along who you can share things with and talk to, someone even better than her perhaps. When I lose a friend, it may be a tremendous loss but then another friend comes along that is even a bigger gain.
   
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