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Unhappy My dad's ex girlfriend... - July 12th 2010, 07:35 AM

Well, my dad was with this lady and my brother and i never really like her. We tried at first for my dad's sake but it didn't work. She was into drinking and always found a way to say the wrong thing at the wrong time in a rudely manner that offended people.
She was also ignorant and had a different kind of personality then what we were used to but we didnt say anything because our dad is an adult allowed to make his own choices.
But recently he found out she was pregnant. i personally, am unsure if he is even the father because i have heard from her family that she has had a crush on two other guys whom she broke up with my dad for multiple times.
Either way, she told my dad she was pregnant and basically told him he could sign over rights. she was happy about the baby because shes been super into the whole baby idea which makes me wonder if she got pregnant on perpose but thats just my own assumtion.
For a while althought the situation sucked, there was no more of her around but now my dad has been helping her move and exchanging cars with her... its really wierd and i'm scared they might be seeing each other again.
i dont want to try to tell him what to do but i really can't deal with her and personally want nothing to do with the baby.. its all too awkward and makes me angry. any advice?
   
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Re: My dad's ex girlfriend... - July 12th 2010, 07:44 PM

Well, your dad seems to care about her a great deal even if she isn't any good for him. If the baby turns out to not be his, he'll find out about it because the truth always comes out and when that happens or if that happens, he'll start to realize more and more how she's a liar and does not deserve him, and she doesn't especially from what you've told me.
But right now just avoid her, and maybe he is just helping her or maybe they're back together, you can't be too sure. Like you said, he is an adult free to make his own choices. Have you tried talking to him about how much she bothers you? Maybe he'd listen to some things you have to say if you just sat down with him and talked to him about your feelings towards her.
   
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Re: My dad's ex girlfriend... - July 13th 2010, 03:32 PM

You don't have to like her at all.
Its best to just tell your dad how you really feel about it.
Maybe it help clear stuff up.
But don't except him to lissen to you ...
   
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Re: My dad's ex girlfriend... - July 17th 2010, 07:59 AM

Thanks... I think I will just have to talk about it with him... I think I just fear he is settling because he feels he is getting older. He deserves someone so much better. I hope he will understand me.
Thank you both
   
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