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Unhappy Ruined relationship. - September 21st 2010, 12:42 AM

My mom and I have a horrible relationship. It is literally hanging by a skinny thread. Fights are wierd if they don't happen. I know this is just irreversible.I cry myself to sleep at night. It's awful!
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Re: Ruined relationship. - September 21st 2010, 06:56 AM

Hi there Kamila,
I'm sorry to hear things between you and your Mum isn't very good. But the thing is the relationship with your Mum currently you can work and build on. You can talk to her about how you feel and how upset it makes you feel that you don't have a good relationship with her. Try writing down a list of things you want to say before you do so that you won't forget anything you want to say. If you don't want to say it face-to-face you can always write a letter to her explaining everything you feel. Or maybe you can talk to someone to see if they have any ideas that they might have that you can try. If you and your Mum start arguing just breath, smile and say "Your entitled to your opinions Mum but so am I. There's no point in arguing because it's not going to change my mind" and walk off. Go somewhere until your both calm and go back into the same room.
I hope I helped. If you need to talk to anyone about anything you can always PM me.
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