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help. - October 5th 2010, 10:16 PM

im finding it still a bit werid to talk to my father face to face. i feel like its easyer to talk to him online or by phone or text message. but i cant give him my cell my mother doesnt want me to . its werid ive seen him 5 times already. and ive talked to him sence last december but before that nothing no talking or any connetion till now . its werid because my mother doesnt know i talked to him before that. i love to get to know that side of me but i cant stand just sitting there and talking to him wife and his brother and wife anymore. its getting to be like theres nothing to talk about i dont know what to do because i dont want to hurt my mothers feelings or my step dads
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Re: help. - October 5th 2010, 11:03 PM

Hi Kayla,

I take it from your post that your parent's recently got divorced? I'm not entirely sure what your situation is with your dad, but you should never feel forced into speaking with him. You may be his daughter but that doesn't mean you'll instantly have something to connect with and talk about. Have you tried telling him you don't feel like talking face to face? sometimes being honest is the best way to resolve things. Your mother should support you either way he's your father and if you want to get to know him she should understand. You can also try talking to your mom and see why she feels the way she does about the whole situation.

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Re: help. - October 6th 2010, 12:14 AM

no they were never together not sense i was so to speak before i was born... long before..

no i want to talk face to face and everything but its hard when were just sitting there talking about nothing at all ...

because he hasnt been around . and truthfully i know that and if it wasnt for me last decemember he still wouldnt be talking to me he moved home so i could get to know him. he has a family he is married has a son and a step son. so brothers for me . lol but its nice to get to know him just my mother being herself doesnt want to let me have freedom with seeing him she has to be there in the car while we are talking . he isnt aloud to pick me up from school or anything and i still havent got to see my brothers yet . my mother thinks im rushing things or that he is and its up to me well it should be . my mother has sole coustidy how every you spell it / its hard for me because he is just in my life now and im 16 now i should have the right to see him all the time not just when ,my mother says so .
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