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Moving on - October 30th 2010, 07:32 PM

This last year has been the most confusing experience of my life. Basically, a lot of weird things happened within my group of friends which led to the entire group falling apart/splitting into several pieces. It was all a lot of trivial issues that were handled in juvenile ways.

To give you an idea of where I am in all of this, I kept one friend from that group. A couple of the others talk to us in classes and such, but never outside of school.

But the ones that talk to me at school still expect me to consider them friends. And when my friend asks them about the situation, their answers really upset us.

I hate the way they act about it all. I understand that to them it isn't that big of a deal. But to us, losing most of our friends, that's huge. And they only make it more difficult by insisting that we're still friends, while apparently never having the time to hang out with us.

I'm sick of them. I don't even know if I want to be friends with them anymore. I mean, I miss the fun stuff we used to do together and they were really great friends for a long time. But it's been so long now and they obviously aren't really that interested in being friends anymore. I give up. I don't need them.

I wish it were that easy. I wish I really were moving on.

I just don't understand all of this.


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I will cower like a dog
I will kick and scream
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Re: Moving on - October 30th 2010, 07:38 PM

Well, there is only much that you can do. And there are things that are just beyond your power. Keep hanging out with your friend, say hi to them and hang out with the ones(if any) who will hang out with you. Everyone will see things their own way, so how they take it is how they take it. There's nothing much to say, after this though, but just live life now, what else can you do ? You just have to go on with life.


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