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Best frienemies? - December 29th 2010, 04:45 PM

So this girl and I have been best friends since 9th grade, maybe on and off a little in Grade 10, but that problem's been resolved. It was just about a guy that we both liked, and neither of us wanted to back off... and neither of us got him in the end, haha. It just seems like a silly thing to fight about now that I look back.

But ever since then, we haven't been quite the same. I still love her to death and all, but she drives me mad about 80% of the time. She jumps from being my friend to my enemy on countless occasions... but she's always my best friend, if you know what I mean?

Now my question: I don't have a problem being this way with my friend, but is it normal to have a friendship like this? Does anyone else feel the way I feel about their best friend?

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Re: Best frienemie? - January 2nd 2011, 03:56 PM

It isn't nessacerily healthy friendship but it seems like to me you're quite content with it , so I guess its ok unless it goes to the extremes then its not ok .
Yes i have had this kind of friendship before and i know how it is. I dont think its normal but what do i know ? lol
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Re: Best frienemie? - January 2nd 2011, 04:09 PM

It's not a healthy relationship to me, but some friendships are like and they do work out, it all depends on you and her. I think you should talk to her and tell her how u feel, if she is a true friend then she will understand. I hope everything works out.

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