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Bad relationships.Booze.Drugs.Brother. - February 3rd 2011, 01:44 AM

I am worried about my brother.

Okay I will try to make a long story short.

My parents got divorced, apparently males have a harder time copping with this?

So my brother got drunk, and came into my room one night and was all giggly saying "I think I'm drunk" I'd say, "Yes, I think you are to. You should go downs to bed". I was trying to be calm, but I know what can happen when you are drunk.

He say sat at the end of my bed. He started babbling about this girl he liked, I gave him short replies trying not to seem frightened. He told me I was pretty, thats when I said that I'd call Dad if he didn't go, and he said "oh no don't call dad, don't call dad". He was acting like a little boy, he's older than me though.

So eventually he agreed he'd go if he could Kiss my neck, and I said "No, I don't want you to do that, now go to bed. He wouldn't budge. He leaned over and Kissed my neck, I had to push him away. Than I said "You have to go now, or else I will call dad. So I managed to get him out after about 30 minutes. I couldn't go back to bed for awhile afraid he was going to come in, I would never of called my dad either way because I love my brother so much, and my dad is so hard to explain but he is someone me and my brother do not get very personal with.

Well, the next morning my Dads girlfriend said to me that she had overheard my brother the other night and said that he stole the Vodka, and tequila from the pantry, and some beers. She asked if I was alright, I said I was. She said she wasen't going to tell my dad because he has "To much to worry about already".

So, this weekend my brother is having friends coming over, and he told me they where going to smoke marijuana on the beach. He laughed, and though it was great. But I know one thing leads to another. It is just that my dad is screwing my brother up. I l've my brother so much, I don't want him to get all mixed up in everything.

As oblivious my dad is to me and my brother sometimes, he is not oblivious to the smell of pot. I don't know what to do. There really is no way of stopping my brother rom making bad decisions. And there is NO way I am telling my dad.

If only there was some way of fixing my brothers relationship with my dad? Also did I mention my brother hates my dads girlfriend?

Sorry this is so long I just need help, before everything can't be stopped.

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Re: Bad relationships.Booze.Drugs.Brother. - February 3rd 2011, 09:31 PM

Divorces can be hard on people and sometimes they dont know how to cope so they make bad decision, stupid ones however you want to put them. Anyhow, maybe when your brother is sober and not high you should talk to him about it and have a brother sister bond?


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