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losing friends - February 6th 2011, 03:38 AM

me and my friend just got out of a "relationship".. ever since then, my life had been spiraling out of control.. it was my call on ending the "relationship" but i just dont know.. i cant talk to him without fighting but i cant live without him.. plus, me and my other friends are so distant.. i dont know what is happening but i want it to stop..
   
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Re: losing friends - February 6th 2011, 04:57 AM

Hello there,

You are experiencing the grief of losing an important person in your life, and that is completely natural. It's going to seem unbearable at first, especially if this person has had a noticeable influence on the current structure of your life. It's important to be patient with yourself, and recognize that there is going to be inner chaos for a little while - it's all part of the process, and if it was going to happen sooner or later anyway, always better sooner than later.

Trust your intuition, and your rationale behind letting him go in the first place. Decisions like these are never easy to make - and you made it for a reason. When doubt arises, keep that close to heart - you did what you did for a reason; because it is ultimately the right thing to do. No matter what you do, stay true to your original intentions - or else it would just be running in circles.

Changes always take time to adapt to - over time, you will adapt to a new life without that person - and everything is going to be okay. You will come out of this experience as a stronger, more independent person.

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