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Question Weird Cousin Situation... - August 23rd 2011, 04:45 AM

My much older cousin (he's 30 somthing) likes me in the wrong way What should I do?


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 23rd 2011, 04:50 AM

I would tell someone, has he done anything to you in that sorta way?


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 23rd 2011, 04:57 AM

Nothing that's weird for my family (We're all an affectionate family)


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 23rd 2011, 04:58 AM

Maybe he just likes you as a person? How do you know he likes you in that "special" way?


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 23rd 2011, 05:01 AM

Well 1st he asked if I'm a lesbian or Bi and when I said a lesbian he was sad because she thinks I'm hot and thinks I'd be a hot kisser


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 24th 2011, 12:10 AM

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Well 1st he asked if I'm a lesbian or Bi and when I said a lesbian he was sad because she thinks I'm hot and thinks I'd be a hot kisser
Maybe he thinks your closer friends then he thinks? Me and my friends tend to push the lines a bit with each other just to mess with each other, but we always know they're kidding. He could be thinking that.
   
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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 24th 2011, 06:58 AM

I'm a bit puzzled because while his actions may seem inappropriate, you also indicated you're part of an "affectionate family". The reason I'm puzzled is his actions resemble affection, something your family apparently does a lot of, yet you're uncomfortable with his actions. This may be a misunderstanding on my part, but what exactly does your family do that is "affectionate"? Since he was apparently saddened upon learning you're a lesbian, it shows he has some respect to not have a go with you.


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Re: Weird Cousin Situation... - August 26th 2011, 07:45 AM

Well, by affectionate I mean we hug and are really close and we are usually joking around like playfully. For example I'd poke his arm and he poke me back and we'd play around like little kids just having fun


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