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I feel unwanted - March 1st 2012, 07:15 AM

So once my sister turned 18 she has become all bitchy and every time he gets in trouble it's my fault. Then my parents would argue and I'm always in the middle forced to chose a side and I hate that because no matter what I'm still getting in trouble. I been really happy they even been lowering my dose on medication and I intend to keep it there but it's just hard with everyone constantly yelling. My sister always complaining how no one listens and I just look at her and think what am I doing then nothing. Plus if she would just show some respect maybe it will be less stressful for everyone. I just been so upset and irrated with everyone I don't want to be around them I hate. It's like I'm either choosing a side or being ignored. Then I get yelled at for my grades all A's one B -___- I can't take it >__< how am I suppose to get through this.

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Re: I feel unwanted - March 1st 2012, 11:12 PM

I'm sorry to hear that you have to deal with problems like this - It seems very stressful.

First off, I think that you should be well proud of yourself for the grades you have gotten. Sure, parents are always going to push harder, or in this case they may not even appreciate all the work you had to do to get those grades - but just as long as YOU realize what you have accomplished, that is all that matters. Block out the negative.

Secondly, It seems like the stress level in the family is sky-high. I see it is a hard situation. Maybe start building up a relationship[ with your sister. Go out sometime. Decide to go to the movies together. Spend alittle extra time together. Sound stupid huh? Well it isn't, because things will go ALOT smoother if you build a relationship with her. Sure, it will take alot of effort, and time - but it can be done.

Your very wanted, but so much is going on right now you aren't sure what to do. You cant stop all the yelling, and fighting - but you can attempt to make things alittle better, and go alittle smoother. Parents will be parents - they will yell, they will fight, and they will be unappreciative at times, but we get through it. Siblings will be siblings, you will argue at times and you will love eachother at other times - but thats what having a sibling(s) is all about. I know that it sounds like nothing will ever get better, but in the end, when you are older, you will get along with your sister more (If you build a relationship), and you wont have to deal with your parents as much because you will be on your own. Things get better, so although you currently hate the yelling, and fighting, one day you will look back and miss the time(s) you had together (even if it involved fights/arguments).

Best wishes,

I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think "Yes, I'm exactly who I want to be". To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world...
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