Triggering (Suicide): so hurt :(

[abnormal girl]

im so hurt my guy friend and i had plans to hangout after school but then he just started ignoring my texts and i felt so unwanted i texted my ex and we promised to be best friends and he ended up being with my guy friend! i feel hurt and crushed my heart is still broken from my breakup with my ex and i never thought they could do this to me ever im so sad they dont even know what they did wrong and now there hanging out and dont even care about me and that im upset i feel so dumb and stupid and unwanted i have noone to even go to i just cut my leg i do that anyway i did it even more this time i dont know were to go someone please help! and dont tell me to move on or anything tell me what to say to my ex to get him to atleast care and what to say to my best guy friend and how to just fix this!! i jus wanna die.

[George^^]

Okay, just because two people hang out does not mean they don't like you! Your jumping to conclusions right now, just talk to them about it because sometimes talking to them, expecially if their your friends, might clear something up.

Don't cut yourself, okay? Just because this has happened doesn't mean it was like, something intentional, and if it was just move on about it. What if that guy's phone died?

[Harvey]

Yeah, you really need to take a deep breath and calm down. You don't have any of the information about what happened. Talk to your friend and find out what's up. And, you can't really control who people decide to hang out with. So, if your friend wants to hang out with your ex-boyfriend, there isn't much that you can do.

Keep in mind that you're only 13 years old. I'm assuming that both your friend and ex-boyfriend are about the same age. You guys are all extremely young to be getting into this kind of drama. If they want to be friends, let them. If your ex-boyfriend doesn't want to be "best friends", deal with it. I'm sure you have a ton of other friends that you can hang out with. If your friend is a true friend, he would hang out with both you and your ex-boyfriend (not together) instead of choosing one or the other.

I reiterate though: I don't think he's chosen your ex-boyfriend's friendship over yours, so relax a little bit. Talk to him when he has some time and clear things up. Try not to overwhelm yourself with assumptions that are very likely exaggerated.