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My brother - April 3rd 2010, 03:36 AM

I usually never think about my brothers death, he died a long time ago...
I dont want to think about it, but i just wonder what it would be like to live with him, to love him, to see his eyes and to be a sister... to hug him, to fall asleep watching TV and all...
I just really dont wanna think about it... my mom hates talking about it, and my dad dosent give a fuck about it probably, if he dosent give a fuck about me, his living kid... i dont live with him...
I just wish i had my brither...

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Re: My brother - April 3rd 2010, 07:10 AM

I know that this has to be difficult for you. Even if your mother and your father don't talk about your brother, it's alright for you to think about him and to miss him. I can assure you that there's nothing wrong with it. It would help if you had someone to talk to about all of this; someone who will you think will understand and be there for you (like a friend, a cousin, an aunt or uncle, etc).
If you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to pm me. Hang in there and take care.

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Re: My brother - April 4th 2010, 04:40 PM

first of, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I know it's hard, I've never lost anyone as close as a sibling so I don't know what you're going through, but i had my first loss this year and it was hard, my school work was messed up etc.... Just know that even if your parents don't want to talk about it, I'm sure there are people on TH which have been through the same thing and would love to help
Do you live near his grave? if so, I know this sounds silly, but have you tried talking to him? Just go by yourself and bring flowers or something? and just sit, talk to him. I'd love to be able to do this...
Just know that you can Pm me whenever! I'm online almost 24/7
Take care <3

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