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Great aunt. - May 18th 2010, 02:43 PM

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Ok well Im really close to her, I have no clue why but I woke up to a dream of her dieing last night, and i have this gut feeling something horrible went wrong. she has cancer and we all knew she would go eventually. but im not ready for her to leave, I have a feeling she died last night or yesterday, or something got way worse.
I'm so close to her and I cant have her leave. I just cant.
I just hope she didn't die, I was gonna call her last night before bed, but i figured id let her sleep. so if she died I didn't even get to say goodbye.

I cant have this happen, I loved her so much, she was like a mother to me. *crys*
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Re: Great aunt. - May 18th 2010, 10:10 PM

Hey Dylan,

I am sorry to hear about this. Dreams can sometimes seem so real and like they have actually happened. I have lost a number of people due to cancer and it is awful because there is nothing you can do to make it better. People do get better from cancer though but it does depend on the stage it is. Perhaps it would help put your mind at rest if you did phone her and just asked her how she was doing. No one ever wants to lose anyone and life can seem so unfair when someone you love gets cancer. You can start to wonder why them. But I suppose there is nothing you can do about it apart from be there for them whilst they are unwell and hope they will get better.

I am always here if you want to chat. Stay strong.
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