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Death and Grieving Coping with a loss is difficult at any age. If you need support, ask in this forum.

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3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 14th 2011, 05:24 AM


I lost my grandma. She was so incredibly sweet and caring.
A week later I lost my dog. The sweetest dog I have ever seen. I had her for 9 years.
Then 3 days later, my cross country coach died. He saved my life.

I lost 3 people in less in a month. They were my first deaths. And everyday I am sobbing in my room because of it. I could go on and on about how much I love them. And no one ever understands what I'm going through. It's killing me.
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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 14th 2011, 05:38 AM

Hey i'm sorry for your loss. I know dealing with losses of people/pets close to you is hard. I'm always here if you need to talk, pm me or we can meet in chat anytime. You're never alone. <3
   
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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 14th 2011, 06:22 AM

i'm so sorry, it must be unbearable right now i've never lost that many people in such a short span of time, but I know what it feels like to lose someone you're close to, and to feel like you just can't stop the choking sobs from taking over.
If you ever want to talk, please don't hesitate to PM me.
Also, I noticed you're new here, so I just wanted to say welcome to TH! I'm sorry for your losses and for all the pain you're going through, but I want you to know that you're going to receive so much love and support from the people here, they really are incredible and we all want to help as much as we can.
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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 15th 2011, 03:27 AM

I'm sorry to hear about this. Unfortunately we all lose those we love so much - but losing those people are what will make us stronger even though we don't really see it now.

If you ever need to just chat about things, feel free to Private Message me anytime!

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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 16th 2011, 12:14 AM

I am SO sorry for your loss hun I know how you must feel I have had a similar thing happen. In less than one year I had my sister and my best friend commit suicide and my grandpa died. It can be devastating and I really feel for you . pm me if you ever want to talk.


   
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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 16th 2011, 05:06 AM

Hey Keena.

I won't apologise, or pretend that I know what you're going through, but I will let you know that if you ever want to talk, I'm here. After such sudden losses, especially so close to each other, it's natural to be upset, to cry, to feel like there's no way things will ever get better. But just remember that, in time, the pain will fade, and the memories and lessons these people have left behind will be enough to help you find peace. Try to live the life your coach and grandma would have wanted you to have - be happy you had the chance to have them in your life, rather than sad that they're gone now. And for now, just let yourself grieve. You don't have to open yourself up to all your feelings at once - but don't try to shut yourself off from them either. Feelings, even bad ones, help you to grow and learn, and you need to let yourself move on from this - as impossible as that seems now. Things will get better, I promise.

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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 17th 2011, 06:40 AM

Hey sweetie. I am so very sorry for your loss. May they all rest in piece. It must be a very hard time for you right now. I have lost my share of people and I am still finding it a little hard to deal with. You can get through this and although the pain of losing them will never go away it will fade. You will move on and I hope you will be happy again too. Take care of yourself sweetie and you can pm me if you ever need someone to talk too.


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Re: 3 people I loved, lost in less than a month. - December 17th 2011, 02:45 PM

Sorry for your loss! RIP!
Just try and put yourself together...I know...it's easier said than done....but still....
   
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