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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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A History of Violence - November 4th 2013, 09:54 AM

So I`m currently almost halfway through my Senior year, and can proudly say that I haven`t been in one single fight...yet. During my Freshman and Sophmore years, I got into A LOT of fights. Almost two a day for a while. I got a sort of reputation at my school to where people would purposefully come up and start a fight with me. I never got into trouble because 1. I almost never got caught and 2. I was a starting football player and if I did get caught, my coaches made it go away. I don`t really like fighting I just have lots of anger. Now, I promised my girlfriend i wouldn`t get into any more fights, but theres this kid who is just a disrespectful, vulgar, bullying, jackass punk who has taken it upon himself to make me worried I would break that promise (and I NEVER break a promise). I`ve told this kid many times to back off, i hang out in different places and he finds me. Soon, despite my efforts, if this kid doesn`t knock it off, then I`m gonna hurt him. I don`t know what to do.
   
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Re: A History of Violence - November 4th 2013, 07:37 PM

Hmm well i think it's really good of you that you don't want to be involved in any more fights. I don't know if i'm allowed to advice this but if he really comes up to you and is starting to insult you and stuff and he comes close just give him a quick suprise punch to the stomach, Worked for me and i wouldn't really call it a fight because you just gave him one punch and not even in his face. And because he wouldn't see it coming he will probably back down immediatly because of a kind-of excruciating pain. It might give his ego some damage too so he won't harass you any more. I mean people always say talk and blablabla but in the real world that doesn't really work. Maybe after the punch just tell him you don't want to fight. If this isn't an option i guess you could go to the authorities or tell some big guy to intimidate him into leaving you alone. Again, im not pro-violence but some people just can't be stopped by talking. Good luck in whatever you are going to do
   
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Re: A History of Violence - November 18th 2013, 07:01 PM

Instead of starting a fight, and just hurting him, have you told someone? I know, rat on someone it gets worse kind of thing, but it's worth a try.
Try walking away, ignoring him. He is obviously doing it cause he sees that he gets a rise out of you when he does it, and as long as he sees that he won't stop.
Have you tired to figure out why he is doing it, other then knowing it gets your fired up?
   
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