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Peer Pressure and Bullying Social pressure can take many different forms, including intimidation, bullying and even physical attacks. If you feel you could be a victim or perpetrator (who wishes to stop) of bullying, talk about it here.

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See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 01:13 AM

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Hi Everyone!!

I hope you're having a dandy day.

The video you are about to see [If it's still on YouTube] really got to me. So I just HAD talk about it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IznXulXWbgE

I was MY school's 'Casey'. [Except I was bullied mostly in elementary school - grades 1 to 7] And like Casey - I was bullied a LOT. And mostly by the same type of person that you see bullying Casey. [Someone half my size] Problem was - I NEVER defended myself. [At least not until I got to high school] And the reason why is because I was warned by the adults in my life that I had NO RIGHT to take advantage of my one OBVIOUS advantage. MY SIZE. So I took a LOT of abuse [Verbal mostly - but sometimes physical] from a lot of little creeps. And I just stood there. [Just like Casey was doing at the beginning of the video] So please forgive me as I take this moment to share a thought with all of those 'adults' from my past. To all of those 'adults' who shamed me into doing NOTHING to stand up for myself.

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F*CK YOU!!

That said.... Good for you, Casey. I'm proud of you. You had a PERFECT RIGHT to defend yourself. I KNOW that was a VERY scary moment for you. But that's what bravery is all about. It's not doing something because you're fearless. It's doing something in spite of your fear.

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PS For CASEY'S SAKE - I'm glad the 'bully' wasn't more hurt. And just so you know. CASEY was suspended! Gee - I wonder what message that gives VICTIMS of abuse. Hmm.....


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 01:40 AM

Hahah, that video is badass. Good vid Craig.
   
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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 03:03 AM

I can bet the little skinny guy won't bug Casey again. Was Casey the only one suspended or the little guy too?


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 11:10 AM

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Was Casey the only one suspended or the little guy too?
Hi Andrea!!

I'm not sure!! But there was no mention of the bully being punished at all.

If I find out more - I'll be sure to let you [And everyone else reading this message - of course!] know.

Another person I'm mad at is the girl 'filming' all of that. What an awful person.

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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 11:18 AM

I think what Casey did was a little extreme, he could have really hurt the kid but he still deserved it. I hope it sends a message to everyone out there that bullies people, they could eventually stop taking it and stand up for themselves. No-one deserves to be bullied for whatever reason.


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 05:32 PM

That kid deff needed that slam, thinks he's a little to hard for his own good ... come to think of it after that video came out I bet he got fucked with alot ha.
   
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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 10:06 PM

And now he's an internet meme: Little Zangief. Good on him.




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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 10:45 PM

Ah, it violated YouTube's ToS, so I didn't get to see it.

But three cheers for Casey for standing up to the little bugger! ;D


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 11:36 PM

aww i didnt get to see the video they took it down what was it about im curious is it on any website if so i would like to see it im curious but good for casey for standing up it is proven the hardest thing to do is standing up against a bully i prob never be able to do that




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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 15th 2011, 11:55 PM

Aww man, they took it down. Oh well, its good to see people standing up to bullies.


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 16th 2011, 12:05 AM

The vid got taken down, however I think that people who stand up to bullies have a lot of courage within them and it is great to see that they WILL NOT tolerate it.


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 16th 2011, 12:10 AM

Taken down from Youtube, yes. It's still all over the place if you look for it. Google "little Zangief" or "Zangief kid".



   
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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 16th 2011, 12:52 AM

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Hi Andrea!!

I'm not sure!! But there was no mention of the bully being punished at all.

If I find out more - I'll be sure to let you [And everyone else reading this message - of course!] know.

Another person I'm mad at is the girl 'filming' all of that. What an awful person.

GBH - Craig!!

PS Hi Kyle!!

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I found this article saying both kids were suspended for 4 days and gives more information.
http://technolog.msnbc.msn.com/_news...hero?gt1=43001


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 16th 2011, 08:23 AM

NEW VIDEO LINK

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1aYL...eature=related

Ahh that kid got what was coming to him, I think that the little twerp should be expelled, and the big kid should not be punished, but as always "Self Defense" (a legal right) is ignored by the school system.



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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 16th 2011, 10:37 AM

THANKS Andrea!!
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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 17th 2011, 01:36 AM

HAHAAAAA AWSOME!!!

Friggin awesome. Loved the video.

It was funny in my school people in the same year as me at first would pick on me. Then once I got them to stop (by force), it was the lower years who started having a go at me, thinking (rightly so) that school rules would favour them. School rules favoured them yes, but didn't save them.

I just love the bit where he can't even stand up properly. Pile of jelly.

No one's EVER gona bully the big guy again. Hell yeah. Good job... GOOD JOB.


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 20th 2011, 11:40 AM

Hi Everyone!!

I hope you're having a bully free LIFE!

Click on the link below to see an EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW with Casey!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_4HDyhnDO4

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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 20th 2011, 02:55 PM

I'm very proud of that kid for defending himself. I've been bullied in a very similar way, and I couldn't have done that. Standing up to bullies takes a lot of courage, good on him.


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Re: See what happens when a bully victim stands up for himself - March 20th 2011, 07:15 PM

Very good of him to do that.

I remember several years ago when I was bullied, all it took was a punch in his face to make it all stop. Surprising how something so simple to do can be so tough, but yeah good one Casey


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