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Professor Attracted to me? What to do? Im a guy! - February 7th 2010, 02:59 AM

My professor seems like she is attracted to me, she gives me extra attention in class. I participated alot in class too! and there is no points given to participants.

She tryed to make me get her coffee or atleast walk and get coffee with her. She tries to listen to my conversations with my friends. She stares at me somtimes. But when i ignore her during the break (3 hour class) she seems to change her teach style. With less "energy"


This isn't the first time ive attracted a prof, last time i got a favroable mark.

She is part time prof. is really smart who have an ivy league background. i think she is a "milf" but i am very well controlled. So i am trying to play this game safe.

And U want to get a A- atleast in the class...
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Re: Professor Attracted to me? What to do? Im a guy! - February 7th 2010, 03:01 AM

Just keep ignoring her. Maybe you'll get a better grade in the class. If you really don't feel comfortable then tell her, but who knows what grade you'll get?

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Re: Professor Attracted to me? What to do? Im a guy! - February 7th 2010, 06:35 PM

She may very well be attracted to you but the confounding variable is that you participate a lot in class. Professors know those who participate a lot. There never are points for in-class discussions, it's university not grade 5.

When I go to ask my statistics professor a question, she knows me by my first name and likes to talk because I talk to her a lot, and not simply about statistics (I wait until others have asked their questions). Sometimes when I'm talking and the professor has to be somewhere, if we're heading in the same direction, then we talk while walking until we head our separate ways. This applies to other professors also and some are more open than others to just kicking back and relaxing. For example, one of the third-year biology professors can be intimidating but he's a bit laid bac, at times in that he'll put his feet on the table at the front during a test. If you get to know him, he's a pretty funny guy. Regarding her snooping on your conversations, if she does that to others who talk to her a lot, then it may be not as likely that she is attracted to you. Just remember though, people cannot help who they are attracted to so she could very well be attracted to you and others could be attracted to her.
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Re: Professor Attracted to me? What to do? Im a guy! - February 7th 2010, 07:58 PM

it's not a bad thing if she likes you.. maybe she'll give you a higher grade than she would have otherwise.. but yeah, just ignore her.. pursuing anything would be dodgy, doesn't sound like you want to though.

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