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Re: Do fathers ever masturbate thinking about their daughters? -
April 24th 2010, 08:44 PM
I would say not. Thinking about their daughter lustfully while she is in a revealing position, yes - but then that is because he is looking at ladyparts -he'll snap out of it once he realizes he is in fact looking at his daughter. You've the pick of all the women you can imagine while masturbating (or if you're unimaginative like me, all the women that come up on google images
), picking your daughter would be somewhat worrying.
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April 24th 2010, 09:20 PM
No, I wouldn't say it's normal or even common. Then again, I'm not a father so I can't comment with full certainty. However, men DO have self control, it's just some silly myth that a guy can't control themselves when it comes to sex. Just in the same way as I don't masterbate to thoughts of girls I think are hot whom I know personally I wouldn't masterbate to thoughts of my daughter.
If a father needs to masturbate then there is the internet with countless pictures of sexy women, nude women and pornography. Hell, he could even go and have sex with his wife or sexual partner, or masturbate to thoughts of them instead. If, given all that choice, a guy still decided to masturbate to thoughts of his daughter then that would be slightly worrying. Perhaps he might see his daughter in a compromising position and have a flash of sexual feeling, but masturbating to thoughts of her would be too far. |
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April 24th 2010, 10:17 PM
I would think not. I mean, my dad is in complete denial of his daughters and anything sexual, and I assume others would be too.
I mean. Girls don't masturbate to thoughts of their father. It's wrong, and icky.
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April 24th 2010, 10:22 PM
I wouldn't think so. Like Nicola said a girl wouldn't masturbate thinking of her dad/brother/cousin. You don't think of family members in sexual ways at all. If a person did masturbate over their daughter then that's quite worrying.
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April 24th 2010, 11:25 PM
I can't really speak for fathers, since I'm not one, but think the idea of a man masturbating to the thought of his daughter isn't socially acceptable, so even if they did, I doubt anyone would talk about it. I think while a father might think other girls his daughters age are attractive, I doubt many fathers find their own children attractive, even if they're scantily clad. I, personally, find it a horrifying concept, considering it's incest, and hope it's extremely uncommon to the point of virtually nonexistant.
As for girls masturbating to thoughts of their father... I don't know either way on that one. I, personally, have never done it (eeewww), but many women do like the whole "who's your daddy?" thing when it comes to sex, so maybe other girls do, but again, I doubt it and hope it's extremely uncommon. |
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April 24th 2010, 11:33 PM
I find that a little... odd. I'm gay, and I don't masturbate to thoughts of my mother, or even my sister, who is very beautiful. It would just feel wrong for me to think of my family members in a sexual way.
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April 24th 2010, 11:42 PM
No. That is definitely not normal. The fact that he can even see her in that way is a bit disturbing to me... Why would she be in a revealing position in front of him in the first place?
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April 24th 2010, 11:42 PM
If you want my honest opinion, I think that the idea of fathers masturbating thinking about their daughters (and the other way around) is just...icky.
I mean, this is your own blood that we're talking about. You're supposed to have a fatherly love for your daughter, not a sexual attraction that would go as far as masturbating because of her. A father-daughter relationship is not supposed to be sexual, or else it's just wrong. |
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April 24th 2010, 11:53 PM
I asked this question because I have heard of cases of fathers that have masturbated to the thoughts of their daughters but they have never touched them and never would because they are not really attracted to them,it's just a momentary stuff.I mean when a guy sees a hot female he will feel the urge of masturbating thinking about her even if this female is his daughter because males' sexual urges are too strong and they can't control it.Do you know what I mean?
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Re: Do fathers ever masturbate thinking about their daughters? -
April 25th 2010, 12:07 AM
I never have. I'm not saying you haven't heard of many cases, I just think we all want more specific examples than "many cases". Where did you actually hear about them?
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April 25th 2010, 12:07 AM
Okay, but where have you heard these cases, exactly?
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April 25th 2010, 12:08 AM
Nobody is saying it never happens, just that it's certainly not common or even right. May I ask why you're so desperate for it to be so common? If it's not taking too much of a liberty to ask?
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Re: Do fathers ever masturbate thinking about their daughters? -
April 25th 2010, 12:08 AM
That would be just plain nasty and wrong, i dont imagine a father ever thinking about a daughter while masturbatating.
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Um, I'd say one who does has quite serious issues.
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April 25th 2010, 01:03 AM
I'm sorry, but seriously, where are you getting all of this 'information' from? The majority of men are not like that. Males have posted in this topic and said that doing that would be wrong. I have a boyfriend and a lot of male friends and I know that none of them would ever do this. I think you will find that the only men who do this are the ones who are abusive to their daughters. And I think that those cases are far less common that you think.
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April 25th 2010, 02:26 AM
you have asked this questions on other sites and have gotten similar answers. so what does that say to you?
if so determined to believe that some dads do that then fine believe it. " One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. "
i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person. i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P |
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April 25th 2010, 02:43 AM
As I've already said numerous times, the fathers that do this are messed up. It is not normal for people to masturbate to thoughts of their family members. Unless you are willing to give us these cases that you keep talking about or come up with some real figures of the numbers of dads who supposedly do this, I don't really see what you are gaining by continuing to post. There is no point in starting a thread simply to argue with everyone who posts in it.
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April 25th 2010, 02:55 AM
I would also like to establish are these “daughters” grown women we are talking about or are these children? Because if these are children then you get into the whole issue of pedophile.
Quite frankly I have never heard of this. And I would assume that if a man does do this while thinking about his daughter that something is not right. If she ever found out I think it would be consider sexual abuse. Because it would severely emotionally scar her. Fathers and daughters do not have a sexual relationship what so ever. So I don’t know what “cases” you are hearing about, but they are not common and they certainly can not be healthy for the man or his daughter. ::Teen Help Member Since 2006:: |
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April 25th 2010, 03:05 AM
If it is so inappropriate, then why did you start talking about them in the first place?
Then find a study that says that this is as common as you seem to think it is. If you don't have anything to back up your claims, then how can you expect us to believe what you are saying? You keep insisting that men are like this because they are perverted and have no control over their actions. And I would like to see the evidence that men are really like this and that what you are saying is true. Otherwise, you are just giving false information. Dreaming about the day When you wake up and find That what you're looking for Has been here the whole time. |
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April 25th 2010, 03:13 AM
So if you actually have "cases" of this happening, then why did you start a thread asking the question "Do fathers ever masturbate thinking about their daughters?"
If you're completely sure that this happens, then why, may I ask, did you even ask the question in the first place? |
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April 25th 2010, 03:43 AM
I honestly have to say this? Look at the replys you are getting. What are we saying? We are saying is NOT common. So believe us.and if the evidence is so inapporite then just ask a mod to put a non pg 13 rating on this. Okay maybe it is common in some places where the dad or family has some extreme serious issues. But honestly ask yourself, would your dad do that? I know mine wouldn't and I don't need evidence to prove that. I know him and that's why I know he won't.
And your saying my dad is messed up. And HE'S NOT. I'm offended by that and what your saying. You need to stop thinking that everyone is messed up. You know what I try to be perfect, I try my best to be a good person. I'm offended on so many levels by what you hav said its insane " One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. "
i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person. i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P |
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Re: Do fathers ever masturbate thinking about their daughters? -
April 25th 2010, 03:58 AM
Please don't make posts like this. TeenHelp is a place for all people to come and feel safe and accepted. Some men might have "perverted" tendencies, but then some women will too. Most men don't; and sentiments like yours help to perpetuate a very negative cultural stereotype.
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Because I want proof?!
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i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person. i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P |
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April 25th 2010, 03:59 AM
Okay, well now that you've asked us, and we've told you that it isn't common, why are you still not willing to believe us?
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