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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Unhappy I want to be... - March 6th 2014, 09:50 PM

This is gonna be a very long sentence, but it's like, I want to be tall and stunning but not in a slutty way, but I also want to be that person who is unconventionally beautiful, but I want to be someone who wears mad things and can pull them off, but also I want to be a classic nerd who only wears fandom merch, but also I want to be a cosplayer and dress all anime, and I want to be skinny and athletic but also that girl who is fat and looks amazing, and I want to be curvy and boyish, and I want hair that is long short frizzy curly straight blonde blue pink black, and I want to be that person who can breeze through life, but also the person who makes a lot of mistakes but that's why you love them, and someone who can wear fashionable clothes without looking pathetic and dull, and is popular and makes everyone smile, but I want to be that gothic, depressive, artistic girl who everyone respects quietly from a distance, and that person who can just talk to strangers, and can sit at someone random's lunch table and be like hi how are you, yeah, no I don't know you, I like your hair, bye, but be mysterious and wise and happy and lovely and kind and brave and friendly and a genius and fanciable and admirable and perfect and normal, you know?
   
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Re: I want to be... - March 7th 2014, 03:54 AM

Hey there,

I completely get where you're coming from. When I was younger I remember being so conflicted about this. I wanted to be so many different people and personalities and whatnot and I felt like I could never be all of them. Honestly though, as cheesy as it sounds, just be yourself and try to learn to love it. All of those things you listed sort of puts yourself into a category or a label. You can be a lot of those things if you want to be. Don't limit yourself to dressing or acting a certain way! Wear what makes you happy, find hobbies that you enjoy, and embrace the personality you have.

Take care. :]


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Re: I want to be... - March 10th 2014, 03:01 AM

Hey there.

Well it seems that you at a classic stage in your life in which you have much conflict about who you want to be, and/or who you currently are. I think a lot of people have been through similar stages (some harder than others), but it all comes down to what's realistic. Sure, it's awesome to think about things in a 'fantasy' type setting, but eventually we do need to choose and act on who we want to be, and let go of all the other unrealistic-type ideas.

So pick someone who you'd love to be. Someone who you want to be, and who can take you far. Be yourself, find your inner passion, and inner values. It may take awhile, and it may take endless amounts of time (i.e., experimenting with other ideas), but in the end things will work out the way they are meant too.


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Re: I want to be... - March 12th 2014, 10:27 PM

Thanks ^_^
   
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