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Why Me? Here is a safe space to let it all out, where you can rant about all the bad things life throws your way. Sometimes it just helps to ask "why me?"

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Angry Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 06:19 PM

This thread has been labeled as triggering by the original poster or by a Moderator. Please take this into consideration before continuing to read.

Not sure where this post should be, but this is triggering because of certain things I'm going to mention.

I have a [Edited] account I log into daily, not trying to promote it, but feel like it is important to mention. I posted in the beauty section about plastic surgery, including the kinds I personally want. Someone gave me great advice but kind of triggered my anger/jealousy about a woman who worked at a strip club with her who went from an A cup to an H cup, also mentioning how she bragged about all the attention she got. Since that post, I've gotten a job at a club myself and found someone who will pay for my surgeries, and I plan on getting H cup implants too. I hate this woman she mentioned, though I never met her. I HATE her for the attention she's recieved, being a stripper, now I feel like I need to top that, and I'm going to. I have this issue a lot, to the extreme. Its all I usually think about, being better. Most guys are shallow so I might as well take attention away from women like her and put it on me. I'm not sure why I posted this, just upset.



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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 07:52 PM

Hello,

I have gone ahead and moved this to a different forum as I feel you might receive better responses here. I think that there are people who can feel jealous over the attention other people get. I think you should ask yourself why the attention she got is causing you jealousy. I believe that jealousy is a normal human behavior but it can become more unhealthy if you feel the need to top the people you are jealous of. Identifying why you feel jealous and trying to figure out the healthy ways to combat that jealousy is a good thing to try and do.

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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 08:13 PM

Hello,

I am so sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now and I hope you will be okay soon. When we see other people with different types of things we can always get jealous of what they have. Sometimes it can be over a friend has a new car, or they have an amazing house or they can buy all kinds of clothing all of the time and anyone can get jealous of this or if someone wants to have plastic surgery too. We all do this. It is hard too sometimes, to be happy for them, you are friends with them. But if they are truly you're friends they will always like you for you and you do not have to impress them with everything you have. They will like you for the person who you are. And they will want to hang out with you and do fun things because you are friends. I hope that you will be okay soon.
   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 09:13 PM

This has nothing to do with friends, and I WILL top her.


   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 09:26 PM

Hello, I was just giving examples of different things that people can be jealous of. And they can be friends and they may not be friends. We can be jealous of different people and that's what I was trying to say in my other post. I wish you the best and hope that you will be okay soon.
   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 09:30 PM

I will be when everyone sees me better than her.


   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 10:27 PM

It's what on the inside that matters. You may become beautiful on the outside, but what is on the inside?
   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 29th 2018, 11:43 PM

Inside doesn’t matter if guys like my appearance.


   
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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - April 30th 2018, 12:06 AM

Hey,

I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am wondering if you know why you feel jealous of people you don't even know. If you don't I would try and figure that out and then you can start trying to find ways to not get jealous. I am also wondering if you know why you feel the need to top that person and take attention away from other girls. If you don't know I think you should try and figure that out first and once you do you can hopefully find a way to stop these thoughts.

I would also like to point out that people usually care more about what people are like on the inside. What I mean by that is they care more about if you are kind, thoughtful and nice. Appearances don't mean much. Maybe if you changed the way you think and look at the beauty inside of yourself and other you may find that you don't get jealous of people a lot anymore or feel the need to top someone.

If you really do want to get H cups that is all up to you. But I want to point out having big boobs isn't as fun as people think. I have DD and my shoulders and back hurt a lot because my bra has to hold up so much weight. So I would consider this before you go through with it.

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Re: Jealousy and Plastic Surgery - May 1st 2018, 01:52 PM

I dont think youre looking for opinions so I am not going to give mine in regards to standards of beauty. I just wanted to mention that jealousy and anger are two difficult emotions to have but theyre also useful if channeled correctly. To channel them in the best way, it is important to integrate emotion and intellect together. Sometimes the emotional side does feel stronger and thst might mean to hold off on making such a big decision. You might have the money for it but practically speaking, having an H cup size is very painful and draining to the body. Try to think of pros and cons of getting this surgery and then the pros and cons of not getting it.
   
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