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Read This If You Fall In Love Too Fast - September 11th 2019, 04:08 AM

I get the feeling.

It feels so thrilling and so exciting when
you meet someone for the first time, and
you feel like thereís this spark, this roaring
flame that you feel with this person.

You think that this is the one youíve been waiting for.

You know what Iím talking about.

So you donít waitÖ

You go right ahead and start dating after
caving into your high feelings and probably
even after being pressured by your friends to go for it.

You start entering a relationship with the other person.

And it all goes so wellÖ

Up until something happens and it causes the end of the relationship.

This might not be something youíll be comfortable
hearing at first, but donít fall in love so fast.

Nothing good comes from falling because if you
do fall, how will you know the other person will catch you?

Itís important to realize that you canít get so
caught up in chasing after highs.

You may like the idea of having a romantic partner,
but it doesnít mean youíre ready for one, or that you want one.

We tend to forget about ourselves when we fully
devote our attention to the other person when weíre
in a relationship, and thatís a problem.

I understand itís so hard to wait and to take
your time to get to know the other person, but
if you enter a relationship so fast with someone,
itíll most likely end so fast too.

Donít allow a relationship that ended too soon
cause you to move further away from yourself,
and turn you into something that you hate.

No matter what relationship you enter, always
have room for yourself too.

Remember this if your relationship with someone just ended:

Love didnít hurt you.

Someone who didnít know how to love hurt you.

Take the lessons learned from it so you donít end up
repeating the same mistakes in your next relationship.




ďThe main thing is realizing that even if you feel terrible for a while, thatís not how youíre going to feel the whole time. . . . Things change if you just keep moving.Ē - Gary Vaynerchuk
   
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Re: Read This If You Fall In Love Too Fast - September 13th 2019, 11:30 AM

I bet a lot of people can relate to this!


   
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Re: Read This If You Fall In Love Too Fast - September 13th 2019, 07:10 PM

I enjoyed reading this, it was lovely. Thank you so much.


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Re: Read This If You Fall In Love Too Fast - September 14th 2019, 02:01 AM

Glad to hear this was of value to you both.




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