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Tired of this girl bothering me around.... - January 25th 2013, 01:33 PM

Welltitle says it all, she keeps trying to put me in sexual situatuions and stuff like that i dont wish to be in and im tired of it....
I dont like her nor want to be with her....
Im tired of this , she kees like stalking me in school and stuff....
Any suggestion to how to her to stop , im feelign pretty uncomfotable
   
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Re: Tired of this girl bothering me around.... - January 25th 2013, 02:42 PM

The most direct option would be to just talk to her. It is something that she's probably sensitive about, but you could just be like "look, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I feel like you have a thing for me and that you are trying to get me to have sex with you [or what ever the actual sexual situation is] a lot. I just need to tell you that I'm not interested and your trying to find me places all the time and making advances all the time makes me uncomfortable. I think you seem like a very nice girl, but I'm just not interested and you should move on, there is probably another guy out there who will like you". Something to that effect might work.

If a direct confrontation isn't a path you seriously want to use just avoid situations where she can get you alone and use body language to discourage her, like cross your arms or put your hands in your pockets to limit her ability to touch your hands/arms and make sure you only look at her face, which sounds stupid but if she sees you "checking her out" upclose she might misread that signal. You could also say things like "you are such a great friend" or tell her about a girl you like from another school even if you have to make her up. That way you can avoid having to directly confront her if that's not something you feel comfortable with.


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Re: Tired of this girl bothering me around.... - January 28th 2013, 06:59 AM

Bumble bee is right, the best thing to do is to politely tell her that you aren't interested in her that way and would appreciate it if she could try to stop.


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Re: Tired of this girl bothering me around.... - January 28th 2013, 06:01 PM

Everyone is right. The best option here is to be very truthful with her, even blatantly so. If she's putting you in these awkward situations, and has no means of stopping right now, the best thing for you to do is just tell her that you're not interested. If she continues after you've told her this, maybe it's best to bring it up with someone of authority at school, since this seems to be the place where most of the incidents occur. It's always best to be honest with someone.











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