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Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 3rd 2013, 06:03 AM

Alright so número uno, I'm a guy. Second, I'm 19. Lol anyway, I think I have depression. I'm not entirely sure as I haven't really talked to anyone about it or bad it diagnosed, but sometimes it feels like it. Anyway, every time after I masterbate (orgasm) it seems to trigger major post masterbation guilt. It like brings about the depression even more. I could be be talking to some girls before (not just cause I'm horny before masterbating lawl) and then after, I don't want to have anything to do with them. My emotions are already a roller coaster that I have to deal with, it seems that masterbation just makes it even more of a "ride". I'm looking for any advice on any of this or something that could help. Idk what I'm really looking for hahahah. Anyway, thanks for any help! =D
   
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Re: Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 3rd 2013, 06:09 AM

Oh. My. Gosh. I am the exact same way. For me, I just try not to give into those urges, and instead I exercise. Exercising gives me the same feel good emotion, just in a different way, and I don't feel guilty afterward! I suggest you try and find something to do instead that makes you happy too. goof luck!


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Re: Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 3rd 2013, 06:15 AM

I have heard that it is better to find an outlet for those feelings like working out. Only problem is that usually I just do it when I'm bored. And generally that happens at night after like 10. I can't really work out at that time anymore cause my parents are sleeping, unless I do some like more quiet work out haha. It's worth a shot!
   
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Re: Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 3rd 2013, 02:39 PM

I may be wrong since a woman in this thread experiences the same, but:
upon orgasm the male brain normally goes into "rest mode" state where you don't want to do anything, including talking to people, just recover from it.
Maybe you're different but that's normal. I am different here as I love to cuddle for hours after sex and I am still extroverted after masturbating, but I know some people who perfectly fit your description and they're just normal.
   
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Re: Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 4th 2013, 03:36 AM

A guy I dated after having an orgasm just didn't want to talk or anything. Like the poster above I'm always in a happy snuggly mood after masturbating. But I've known guys who get rather grumpy and untalkative after. Also have u ever tried to sort out in your head why you feel guilt after? That might help. If it is in conflict with religious beliefs that could trigger the guilt and in that case I'd suggest talking to somebody of your religion that you trust. It could be a priest, rabbi, other religious leader, or just an adult family friend who has good insight to religion. For me when I feel guilty I find that talking to a priest and going to confession helps. I hope that you resolve this. I totally understand the masturbstion guilt although mine kicks in the next morning. Good luck! If you want to talk feel free to PM me.
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Re: Orgasm triggers so many emotions - June 6th 2013, 11:47 PM

Orgasms are, as you will be aware, intensely strong feelings and the process of orgasming seems to open the doors for some people in terms of emotions.

I went through a phase of crying after sex. Tears would just fall for seemingly no reason. But my boyfriend said it was natural as all the hurt I had been feeling inside needed to come out. The same thing happens when I randomly start laughing after sex - it's the release of whatever feelings you have bottled up inside.

If you think you might be depressed then it's no surprise that you feel sad after orgasming. I think the only way to deal with this is to address whatever it is that is making you unhappy. Is there something specific, or do you just get a general feeling of sadness sometimes?
   
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