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Uncomfortable erections - December 26th 2016, 04:08 PM

So I have been dating this girl for 2 weeks. (Im a 18m shes a 19f). She is so sweet and we really like each other, I sense this is the beggining of a relationship. I have a hard time (no pun intended) dealing with with my erection while around her . I'm in highschool and I live with my parents and she is in college, so we usually just hang out at her dorm on our dates. Even when we are not doing anything sexual, I tend to get a raging hard on. This is not just uncomfortable, it's actually painful. It's cold as shit where I live so I have no choice but to wear jeans and guys, you know damn well that erections and jeans do not go well together. The moment I walk in her door, boom. The most sensative part of my body is very firmly smashed against my jeans and it makes it hard (no pun intended) to get through the date. We usually proceed to talk, watch movies, cuddle, and then get sexual. But when we do get sexual, it's one sided. Let me explain:
She gets very horny aswell, so I usually provide sexual favors for her (fingering, eating her out, body kisses, breast groping and sucking ect) and we both throughly enjoy it. The thing is, she is not comfortable doing anything with my penis. She knows im hard, she sees it and I tell her but she is very clear she does not want anything to do with it. I would be ok with this becuase I like being around her for who she is and not for sexual things but this getting to be more about relieving my discomfort than my own sexual satisfaction. Does anyone have any (serious) advice?
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Re: Uncomfortable erections - December 26th 2016, 05:03 PM

Probably the best thing would be to flip the erection into the waistband of your jeans. Thats probably the best way of dealing with the ache it forms.
I dont have any other advice sadly since ive never had a gf or anything.

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