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Issues around cuckold fetish. - January 31st 2017, 10:11 PM

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I've made a post about this before, but essentially the gist of it is: I had an interest in a cuckold fetish. My girlfriend went through with it and I didn't enjoy it as much as I expected. Now, even weeks later I'm still having a very, very difficult time working through it and don't know what to do next. I'm hoping this won't be the end of our relationship, but I'm still insecure and unsure of how to move past the fact that I watched another man fuck her.
   
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Re: Issues around cuckold fetish. - January 31st 2017, 10:34 PM

Hey there,

The best thing that you can do is talk through this with your girlfriend. Let her know that, while it was something you were interested in experimenting with, it isn't something that you would like to continue integrating going forward. Use the opportunity to share your concerns with her as well. If you let her know what your insecurities and/or fears are, the two of you will be able to start the process of putting this in the past and moving forward. Hopefully, she will also be able to give you the reassurance that you need that this is not going to be the end of your relationship.

It might be a process to work through everything that you're feeling, but keep being open and honest with her about what you're feeling and I'm sure the two of you will be just fine.

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Re: Issues around cuckold fetish. - January 31st 2017, 11:01 PM

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Hey there,

The best thing that you can do is talk through this with your girlfriend. Let her know that, while it was something you were interested in experimenting with, it isn't something that you would like to continue integrating going forward. Use the opportunity to share your concerns with her as well. If you let her know what your insecurities and/or fears are, the two of you will be able to start the process of putting this in the past and moving forward. Hopefully, she will also be able to give you the reassurance that you need that this is not going to be the end of your relationship.

It might be a process to work through everything that you're feeling, but keep being open and honest with her about what you're feeling and I'm sure the two of you will be just fine.

Take care,
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We talked about it relatively in-depth, but I found it pretty unsatisfying. She was brutally honest, sometimes at the expense of my ego. Beyond that, I felt as though by sharing my feelings of humiliation, hurt, embarrassment and shame, she felt like I was attacking or accusing her.

Certain aspects of the experience left me deeply hurt, some of which I've disclosed on my other thread...
   
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