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Penis size, increasing with sex - February 8th 2017, 08:29 PM

I have a feeling Ive either seen or created this thread before, but I feel like time adds context to this.
So my best friend is a delusional person. I absolutely know that, and he's shown that pattern over the years to various degrees on various topics. He's super overconfident, but this is a topic where he goes over the top. So Ive seen his erect penis as recently as 17 after his growth spurt, but he's STILL bragging that he has a massive penis. He tries to say that because he has lots of sex, his penis grew to apparently be massive. At 17, his penis was average size at most. He does have a lot of sex, but theres no logical reason that his penis would grow to the size he implies (like 8.5 inches). If sexual activity makes your penis grow, every guy would have a tripod because of masturbation.
Am I wrong, though? Is there any truth to this? It doesnt really bother me from a size standpoint, but it gets under my skin because it feels like he's bragging about the fact that he's having sex and Im not. In his mind, he's probably trying to motivate me to get laid. No, seriously.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 8th 2017, 10:22 PM

It's appears your friend is talking shit. Your penis does not grow based on he amount of sex. It's not physically possible. Ignore him, he's the one acting like a tit. You could ask him to evidence his theory and prove the connection between penis size and quantity of sex next time he goes on about it


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 8th 2017, 10:27 PM

I know I'm not a guy but I'm going to answer anyways

Penises do not grow in size because you have a lot of sex. Just like vaginas don't become looser. I think your find is just talk to try and seem like he is more confident then he really is. To me someone who brags about that stuff the way he does makes it sound like he has low self-confidence.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 8th 2017, 10:55 PM

FYI, Tripod penises (or penises that are nearly as long as your legs) are only seen in really bad Photoshopped porn. Like Essa and Jordan have said, your penis does not grow in proportion with the amount of sex you have. That's just ridiculous. There's no scientific proof and porn is mostly Photoshopped.
   
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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 9th 2017, 02:59 AM

Yeah, I know that. And I don't believe that the penises in porn are real.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 9th 2017, 06:26 AM

I love the way you think! Determining it's BS by noting the world would be different if it were true, is genius.

Is it possible your friend brags a lot because inside he's actually very insecure?
(Trump has this problem to the max. He has to brag about everything, because he is so incredibly insecure, or so I've read.)
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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 9th 2017, 06:56 AM

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I love the way you think! Determining it's BS by noting the world would be different if it were true, is genius.

Is it possible your friend brags a lot because inside he's actually very insecure?
(Trump has this problem to the max. He has to brag about everything, because he is so incredibly insecure, or so I've read.)
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You're my type of guy (or girl). You agree with what I say and acknowledge that Trump is stupid. You have a polar bear as your avatar. Kudos to you, sir or madam.
As for my friend, he really IS a delusional person. But every once in a VERY great while, it all comes crashing down because of his bipolar. I'd expect this more often, but his bipolar tends to switch between happy/angry, not happy/realistic.
I also like how you mentioned another person who bragged about the size of his penis, whether you remember it or not. He said it during a debate when Rubio made fun of his deviously small hands.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 9th 2017, 06:14 PM

A penis can be 8.5 inches, it's not uncommon or unusual. Are you referring to when your friend is having sex that his penis is growing as the blood flow to the penis increases the length and girth? If that is the case, that is normal. A penis increases in size during arousal because of blood flow to the area. It is the same with the female clitoris, it also enlarges.

Friends discuss their sex lives with their friends, it's not uncommon. If it makes you feel uncomfortable you can always ask him to not always talk about his sex partners. Instead, you can mention that you don't want him to constantly telling you he had sex, but rather him talking about it to be reduced in conversations.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 9th 2017, 07:34 PM

8.5 inches is rare and pornstar-esque. Ive seen at least one chart saying that 8 inches and above accounts for less than 2% of the population. Its not necessarily a bad thing, but it is uncommon.
I almost feel insulted with your point about penises growing, lol I have one...


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 10th 2017, 01:19 AM

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8.5 inches is rare and pornstar-esque. Ive seen at least one chart saying that 8 inches and above accounts for less than 2% of the population. Its not necessarily a bad thing, but it is uncommon.
I almost feel insulted with your point about penises growing, lol I have one...
I'm actually going to question your source on that one. Speaking as a woman who has had sex with many different people with penises , 8.5 inches isn't necessarily "rare." The average penis generally ranges between 4-6 inches, though it varies by country. If the statistic of over eight inches is truly only 2% then I've had a lot of really "uncommon" partners.



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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 10th 2017, 04:23 AM

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/0...n_6791672.html
21.5 centimeters=about 8.5 inches, and according to this chart, 16 centimeters, or 6.3 inches, is the 95th percentile. 8.5 is barely on the chart. It might vary how they measured it, for example I seem to remember a thread on here when I was 13 and I said something like nine or 10 inches, but only if I measured from the underside, adding like 3 inches or something like that. I don't know how you could eye a penis and be like "yup, 8 inches and above" without a ruler, but if thats true, bravo. I can imagine being like, "whoa, that's gotta be like 8 inches", but I don't know how you'd know without a ruler. However, the chart HP uses isn't broken down by country.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 10th 2017, 04:45 AM

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21.5 centimeters=about 8.5 inches, and according to this chart, 16 centimeters, or 6.3 inches, is the 95th percentile. 8.5 is barely on the chart. It might vary how they measured it, for example I seem to remember a thread on here when I was 13 and I said something like nine or 10 inches, but only if I measured from the underside, adding like 3 inches or something like that. I don't know how you could eye a penis and be like "yup, 8 inches and above" without a ruler, but if thats true, bravo. I can imagine being like, "whoa, that's gotta be like 8 inches", but I don't know how you'd know without a ruler. However, the chart HP uses isn't broken down by country.
Thank you for the reference. I honestly do believe it's really hard (no pun intended) to measure penis size. I could try and find the one by country if you'd like the reference; it was something like 80 countries, with North Korea being the smaller and I think the Congo being the biggest. I might be remembering in correctly. But even in that study it was an average.

It's true that I've never actually measured my partners' penis size. I've just kind of gotten good at eyeballing it. I couldn't tell you if it was exactly 8.5 inches, but I could probably tell you if it was around 8 or 9. Either way, penis size doesn't necessarily guarantee you'll be a good lover. In fact, many of the well-endowed gentlemen seem to think having a larger penis does all the work and that excuses them from learning sexual skills. Some people do feel bigger is better, but that's not always the case. I've been with some larger men who really weren't that superb because they relied on their member to do all the work and I've been with some smaller men who were very skilled. From my experience I've learned it all depends on enthusiasm, connection, communication, and a willingness to experiment. This is especially true considering most women don't actually orgasm from penetration alone.

I think it's really unfortunate that porn has set such unrealistic standards for people with penises. Though I don't know if the guys' penises are fake or photoshopped, they're certainly not the norm. In some ways I think it's similar to how the fashion industry makes women think they're only beautiful if they're slender. It's simply not accurate.

And, as everyone else has said here, no, your penis does not "grow" based on how much sex you have.



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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 10th 2017, 07:10 PM

Most porn these days aren't photoshopped or edited. There are guys out there with big penises. Pornstars usually have a big dick, hence why they do porn. I haven't seen many porn videos with guys with small dicks. If I had a 9 inch cock I'd go into porn lol


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 11th 2017, 03:54 AM

^Lol, then you haven't looked hard enough. Not telling you to though.
Yeah I wouldn't say its photoshopped for videos (I don't know how you do that) but I have heard that the lighting and camera angles make the penises appear bigger.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 11th 2017, 05:50 PM

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^Lol, then you haven't looked hard enough. Not telling you to though.
Yeah I wouldn't say its photoshopped for videos (I don't know how you do that) but I have heard that the lighting and camera angles make the penises appear bigger.
Yeah no doubt they use different filming techniques in mainstream porn, but you only have to look at some amature stuff to know that there are big penises out there.


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Re: Penis size, increasing with sex - February 11th 2017, 07:10 PM

Yeah, I didn't say there wasn't.


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