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Exclamation Expressing my sexuality. - February 8th 2018, 03:56 PM

Hey, Iím 16 years of age and Iíve decided to quit masturbation recently. I absolutely do not want to relapse, I believe it is a degenerate thing to do, Iím sick of it. The problem is not me having sexual urges, the problem is I donít feel attracted to girls my age. I prefer older women, partially because I feel as if girls my age arenít exactly ready for sex. I believe taking someoneís virginity for granted is morally wrong not to mention the risks connected with having sex at this age. I know Iím a bit early, everyoneís telling me that itís not healthy at this point but to be honest, I feel as if this has been going around for my whole life. The truth is I feel sexually attracted to women ever since I can remember. I need some advice on somehow contacting women that are interested in boys my age (please do not mention hiring a prostitute, itís not an option for me), or on stopping sexual urges in general.
   
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Re: Expressing my sexuality. - February 17th 2018, 11:13 PM

Hello There, I read your problem and I really want to help even though Im straight. Im not sure if you admit being lesbian. And Im not if I offended or not, Sorry if I did. But there Is something you can do in your situation. Try thinking of your future first. Dont think about your relationships yet. Im literally 12 and I masterbate ever since I was 4 or 5 years old. Weird I know but I know I should think of my future unstead of wanting something in that instant just wait. Your time will come. I hope this helped well Im not sure If it did.
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Re: Expressing my sexuality. - February 20th 2018, 07:51 AM

Hold on... So you're 16, and you want to contact older women to have sex with you? I suppose it may depend on your country, but if an adult agrees to have sex with a 16 year old where I'm from, they're considered a child molester. They'd go to prison, and you'd have to deal with months of court proceedings. It's not worth it.
Just wait until you reach your country's age of consent. Adults who are willing to break the law to have sex with teenagers are often terrible people anyway. If you're swearing off girls your age, then your only other option is to wait until the law allows you to date older women. In response to stopping masturbation, good luck, but it's basically impossible at the age of 16 to stop sexual urges. I tried it as well, but that's part of growing up. If you prefer older women though, then nothing's stopping you from thinking about them while masturbating. You aren't required to think about people your age.
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