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Unhappy My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 01:06 AM

First of all I dont think it was 12in. but keep reading...

I was curious, so i asked my girlfriend (only been dating for about 12 days) How big was the biggest penis she has seen. (mine is 7in) I was suprized when she said the inches was in the double digits, I felt really bad because I knew mine wasn't in the double digits. I asked her this question because I knew my penis was above average but It wasnt in the double digits! and i can keep hearing those words over and over again in my head and it makes me feel really insecure about myself that i have seriously considered using Viagra. So I really need some help I feel really bad about myself and it wont leave my mind. I look at my penis in the mirror and feel like its too small. can someone please help me in some kind of way.
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 01:09 AM

Is she trying to show off how much she can handle? Because that sounds like that's what she's doing, and It's wrong. If she's not satisfied with you, then I'd leave her. If you're considering using Viagra because your girlfriend makes you that insecure you need to talk to her or end it. Viagra can cause serious damage to young people by the way.


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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 01:12 AM

Dude, there's nothing i can do myself to stop you worrying about this, but please try not to. Please. EVERY single person has hang-ups about their exes experience. Firstly, twelve inches is abnormally huge, and even if your girlfriend DID actually see one that big (although it really sounds like an exaggeration) twelve inches is probably too big to actually give a woman more pleasure than pain. Seriously.
She's probably worrying that you've been with girls with bigger boobs than her. Please try not to think about it. Seven inches is completely average, not small at all. Small isn't a bad thing anyway.... you can be with people on the smaller side and still manage to have some a.m.a.z.i.n.g times.
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 01:26 AM

it sounds like your girlfriend was measuring in "di** inches" which are much shorter than actual inches. In other words, she's probably exaggerating the size. I don't know what to say about your insecurity, but maybe you should talk to her about it. Has she actually said anything to you about your size? Also, if she has and is truly worried about your size that much (especially when 7in. is not small) then perhaps you should find someone who doesn't make you feel so down on yourself. BUT, like I said, this may just be a miscommunication and you asked the question, that doesn't mean she preferred that size or has any problem with yours.
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 03:25 AM

hah well the first thing i thought was 'thats what you get for being cocky about your dick size! (no pun intended).'

besides she didn't say she prefered it did she? alll she did was answer your question, don't ask things like that in future if your going to get weird about it. I think it's kinda funny that you asked just because you wanted her to say how small the other dick was in comparison to yours - obviously there will be guys out there with bigger dicks, better bodys, better looking ingeneral - but she chose you, she likes you and she's with you and not the 12inch dick. so clearly you have something else going for you. so focus on that.
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 03:43 AM

Yours is fine, so don't worry about it. If it really was 12 in., that is way too big. I would hate to have a 12 in. penis. 7 in. is a good and comfortable size.



   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 03:52 AM

okay there is no reason to get concerened about your dick being to small if she really liked you it wouldnt matter. and its only been 12 days theres no hurry for that


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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 03:54 AM

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Is she trying to show off how much she can handle? Because that sounds like that's what she's doing, and It's wrong. If she's not satisfied with you, then I'd leave her. If you're considering using Viagra because your girlfriend makes you that insecure you need to talk to her or end it. Viagra can cause serious damage to young people by the way.
I have to agree with this.


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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 04:20 AM

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I have to agree with this.
really! i wouldn't leave her just because she answered his question! he asked her, and yeah sounds like she exaggerated but she couldve done this either to seem like she was a) mature and could handle a big dick so that he would think she was sexier? (didn't say everyones thoughts are always logical :P) b) the guy told her it was 12inch and she just beleived him or c) she thought it was 12inch and in reality doesn't realise just how big that would be and therefore is lieing by accident about the size.

just have a chat to her about your worries, she won't mind. and you don't need to leave her because she's seen a 12inch penis (or hasn't as the case may be.)
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 09:41 AM

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Is she trying to show off how much she can handle? Because that sounds like that's what she's doing, and It's wrong. If she's not satisfied with you, then I'd leave her. If you're considering using Viagra because your girlfriend makes you that insecure you need to talk to her or end it. Viagra can cause serious damage to young people by the way.
Just like a couple people, I have to agree with this statement. If this girl is giving you so much problems, then she is not worth it. Plus, it is only 12 days into the relationship, so not a lot has happened and if you already get the red flag in your stomach that causes insecurity, then surely she is not for you at all.

And 7 inches is more preferred than 12 inches for sure. You can ask any girl. (:
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 10:49 AM

OK, honestly though? I mean, she NEVER said she preferred that size. Him being self-conscious is really his issue, she never said she liked his any less. It's not her fault. He asked her a question and she answered it. It seems like everyone is jumping to conclusions when really this is just him feeling inferior, not her making him feel that way purposely. Honestly, this is a little bit excessive with everyone telling you to leave her. Just because she has seen someone with a bigger d*** than him doesn't mean the relationship is going to fail or that she is intentionally making him feel insecure. This is an issue he has with his own security and she can't help her past.

Anyway, she will probably not have a problem with your size. I would definitely, as a girl, prefer 7 in. to 12 in. anyway. Unless you are in the moment and she says something, I honestly wouldn't worry about it.

Now IF, and ONLY IF she says something specifically towards you being negative about your size, THAT is when you should leave her. But by the situation you described, it really doesn't seem that she has done that.

Also, like Rhia said (VVV), we don't actually care that much about your size. It's not a huge deal.

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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 10:50 AM

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besides she didn't say she prefered it did she? alll she did was answer your question, don't ask things like that in future if your going to get weird about it. I think it's kinda funny that you asked just because you wanted her to say how small the other dick was in comparison to yours - obviously there will be guys out there with bigger dicks, better bodys, better looking ingeneral - but she chose you, she likes you and she's with you and not the 12inch dick. so clearly you have something else going for you. so focus on that.

THIS is a brilliant post.

If you had any idea how little women cared about the size of your penis then you'd not be worrying at all.
The whole "oh my penis is bigger than your penis thus mine must be better" thing was created by men, is talked about ONLY by men and believed only by boys.
My ex had quite a large penis and my current partner has a normal sized one.
Guess who's better in bed?! My current partner, and no i'm not just saying that because i'm currently with him.
Ya'know 12 inches is actually far too large to fit inside of any woman anyway, it has no advantage what-so-ever because the inside of a woman's vagina is only about 6-7 inches long anyway...nothing bigger than that will FIT unless the chick's been seriously stretched out (ew) so 12 inches is a waste and totally unimpressive. Also, I find it intimidating. I wouldnt let any man CLOSE to me with a 12inch penis.

Oh, chances are she was talking rubbish anyway. There was no way she could know the size of a penis unless she got a ruler out and meassured it exactly. So she either guessed or was told by the penis owner (and ofcourse, he's probably a liar because of the whole Bigger is Better illusion men seem to have) yeah.


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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 12th 2009, 12:33 PM

Also, I really don't see how anyone here can judge her intentions on whether or not she was trying to "show off." It doesn't really sound like anything, it's just sort of what you're choosing to believe how she sounded. She might be lying, or MAYBE she was actually telling the truth to the best of her knowledge. But it's extremely unfair to just go off and assume she's trying to "show off" and possibly make him insecure. All we know is that she answered 12 in. and he reacted the way he did, which to my understanding was in private. He didn't mention her actually saying anything about preferring one size over another. It seems like there is a lot of jumping to conclusions and assuming going on here, which isn't really going to help the poster if you're advising him based on something you pretty much assumed. Sorry if that comes off as rude, I don't mean it to be so please don't take it that way. I just feel like we're giving advice based on what we ourselves believe instead of what he actually told us.

Just a thought, though :/
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 13th 2009, 02:36 AM

Honestly, it's not a big deal. No one cares how big it is.
I really really wish guys would stop worrying about this. There are more important things to worry about in the world.
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 16th 2009, 02:01 AM

You are above average, so you should not feel like this at all. 12 inches is much too large, and I imagine that seeing that would traumatize a girl ...heh. But, I think you just need to step back and just find the confidence in yourself.


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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 16th 2009, 12:18 PM

yh first off i agree with what a recent poster said about asking that question.
don't ask a question if you don't really want to know the answer or if the answer could potentialy upset you!!! my boyfriend done that once and got upset with my honest answer, his own fault for asking!!!.

she may have been over exagerating about the 12 inch cock!. and you say your seven inches??? ok, i've never seen anything above 6 inches,so you should be happy with what you've got! anyway, how does she know it was exactly 12 inches?? what,did she get a ruler out??? mabye she isn't good at judging sizes,i know i'm not.

there are going to be guys out there who are bigger than you but there are also going to be guys smaller than you. 12 inches would HURT LIKE HELL!! to most girls anyway. 7 inches wouldn't be as painful. be positive about your body, shes with you because she likes you for who you are and i'm pretty sure she does like your personal property too!!! don't worry about it plus,shes probly worrying about weather or not your past ex's have had bigger tits than her! or a tighter va jai jai. everyone has little insecurities.don't worry x
   
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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 17th 2009, 02:00 PM

Well, I think that even 7 inches is pretty big I mean, that's more than half a foot!

The idea of a 12 inch penis.. well, I reckon that would hurt. a lot. (Not to mention the guy would have terrible balance issues)

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Re: My Girlfreind has seen 12in Dick.. - July 17th 2009, 11:40 PM

She was exaggerating because that's impossible. One the size of a ruler would not even fit in your clothes and would be freakish.
   
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