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I am ready - October 13th 2009, 11:27 PM

I really am ready to have sex with my boyfriend now, I do feel like we're coming to that point in our relationship when it does feel right to have sex.
We've know each other a while and we've been through a lot so far. I've tried my best to be a good support through his troubles.
I am genuinely falling for him although we haven't been together too long. I think it's right now.
On Thursday I'm going to be seeing him and I just want to know I'm prepared so ladies and gentleman any advice you can give to me would be amazing.
Apart from about having condoms, I'm not silly!
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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 12:31 AM

Make sure that you have lots of time to be alone.
Haha. You don't anyone, like your parnets, coming home and ruining things.
Have fun!
   
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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 02:20 AM

Good luck!
You should definately tease eachother for a while.
It'll just make everything so much better.
Also, don't be afraid to communicate to him what you like and don't.
Communication is the key!
Let me know how it goes!


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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 03:04 AM

Remember, its ok to say no-at any point
   
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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 05:42 PM

Thanks girlies and guys, I don't think it will happen tomorrow but it will be pretty soon.
So I just want to know if it's going to be really painful or if the pain really isn't that bad.
   
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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 07:07 PM

i found it a bit painful to begin with but the pain went away pretty quickly - it was nothing too bad though!. the first few times i had sex i preferred being on top so i could be more in control. just take things slow first time and don't be disappointed if it isn't amazing. have fun ;]


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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 08:10 PM

Well I don't have much choice in whether or not I'm ontop because my boyfriend has a broken leg right now lol.
   
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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 10:56 PM

wow. it seems u have come a long way and have waited till u are completely ready.
Make sure u dnt hop straight into it But take ur time and relax. If you're uncomftable then stop. Or just tell him to wait. There's no rush becaus eif he loves u like u think he does, he'll wait for ever.

Good Luck!


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Re: I am ready - October 14th 2009, 11:34 PM

I'm glad to hear you feel ready! That's great I hope you have fun. Remember, communication is key. don't be afraid to stop at anytime!


   
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Re: I am ready - October 15th 2009, 05:26 AM

foreplay is key...I love it almost more than sex lol. like others have said, make sure you have time to be alone...Having someone knocking on the door in the middle of it totally ruins the mood...been there, done that lol.. Goodluck and be safe!




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