Seriously get annoyed

[Robin]

Ok so my current girlfriend is a pain in the ass when it comes to our "sex life"...she lives a distance away so everything has to be done online as such, so what will generally happen is she will purposly turn me on until i say "so do you want to do something" or along those lines and she will just be like "im not in the mood" or "im not turned on anymore" and im left turned on because she made me that way.....then im left to either sit around and act like im not turned on, or go and do it by myself with whatever i can...which sucks shes my girlfriend.....god i get so angry with it, only 1/50 chance that she will actually do it when she turns me on, i dont mind if she doesnt want to do it but can she not turn me on, she finds it funny to do but i find it such a tease and such a pain, i dont mind doing it myself its just being left with nothing.

Sorry to rant on, but the worst one happened today she went to start and then my internet cut out so she stopped i came back 10 seconds later she said "i lost the mood" so i asked "how can i get you there again" and she said "Im not horny anymore" GRRRRRRR what the hell...she went out of her way to turn me on and i was busy doing work for my buisness......

[B.O.T.E]

I know exactly what you mean lol. My girlfriend will kiss my neck and start rubbing my chest but then says she is not in the mood. It drives me up the wall!!
She'll get me turned on but wont do anything, such a tease lol

[ChapperIce]

Hate to break it to you but that's just how a lot of girls like to ask. I love teasing my boyfriend. For me I believe it's a way of assuring myself he finds me attractive and that he still wants to be with me. Sure it's mean but if we gave it up every time we turned you on, that wouldn't be any fun would it?

If it's really starting to feel unfair to you you should talk to her about it. Or when she's turning you on, just start masturbating since you know she'll stop if you ask for more haha. I used to have some online relationships so I know how difficult it can be.

You could always try turning her on in return and pulling the same tricks on her.

[Nicolette]

Sometimes females do this as a power play, we love knowing that we can make you squirm and want us like nothing else... my suggestion is take some inititive and give her a taste of her own medicine, it might be what she's looking for.

[DeadlySin]

Hahah i'm sorry.
I do the same. =P
Its a distance so again it's all online.
Eventually I do feel bad or he yells at me.
Just tell her enough is enough.
Or when she starts ask her "Will you finish what you started? If not then stop now."

Simple as that.
Take a stand, and don't let her get her way.

I also agree with Nicolette. Do the same to her. =P
It works on me...Then I get that I shouldn't do that.
It is torture. >_O;;

[Nixie]

I agree that women tease boys to reassure themselves that they're still attracted to them. But... When it is done purposely and consistently, I don't think that is right. Once in awhile can spice things up and make sex more playful than a serious thing.. Ya know? You should tell her how much it is annoying you and not to do it at inappropriate times or spontaneously just for sport. That's not cool.

[her_beautiful_mistake]

Yeah, teasing is fun and stuff but to a limit, sounds like your girlfriend has gone way passed that limit. Tell her?

[I-Love-him]

i agree with what everyone else has said.
i tease my boyfriend like this but only if i know i want some sexy time. she shouldn't really tease you if she doesn't want sex or anything.give her a taste of her own medicine and also tell her it's really starting to bug you.

[ShimmeringFaerie]

Okay, wow, I would never do that to my boyfriend. Sometimes I'll tease him throughout the day, but I wouldn't do that if I didn't plan on following through that night. I think it's incredibly cruel to tease someone just to prove that you can?

Tell your girlfriend that you don't think what she is doing is fair and that you don't appreciate it. I wouldn't try giving her a taste of her own medicine because it mightn't work and it's just sinking to her level.