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Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 10:00 PM

I'm male, and I masturbate (Wow, who has ever heard of that) I have a really akward question, I mean so akward I'm unsure of if I even want to post it here...

The thing is, I usually start out by drying humping my bed, then If finish by using my hand in the more "Conventional" method. However I'm really worried that this could
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B: Make sexual acts in the future different because of my way of seeking pleasure.

I mean I could cut the humping part out, but it feels so... good I guess.



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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 10:04 PM

You're not going to cause yourself any harm by doing it that way but I can see how it could effect you when it comes to sex. If you're use to getting off that way, if it comes to sex you might find that you can't get off because you're use to that way so maybe doing it the 'typical' way every now and that might help you get use to that way as well so it won't effect you when it comes to sex.
   
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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 10:07 PM

I'm a female, so I know little of male masturbation.

But, to be completely honest with you (and this is going to be awkward for me), but when I first started masturbating at around your age, I used to dry hump pillows. It felt good, of course. But, it's been years since I've done that, and I have since had sex. Nothing has changed for me in the pleasure department.

I don't think your going to harm yourself, unless you nick of penis on something and it cuts you. But, it would be okay. Everyone has different ways of pleasuring themselves, and this is just yours. Nothing wrong with it.

Just beware of irritation on the penis. If you see any unwanted redness down there, I would suggest not doing it anymore. Or, if you think it's going to turn into a problem, trying using the conventional hand masturbation. There are other ways to do, but I think a male perspective is more wanted for that kind of information.

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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 10:19 PM

Nothing will happen in the pleasure area, but you might find yourself unable to orgasm from vaginal or oral intercourse. The reason is, is becuase a vagina doesn't squeeze with as much force as your hand, neither does a mouth, so change it up a little. Masturbate to the point of orgasm then switch hands or use a banana as a makeshift orifice.


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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 10:31 PM

it won't cause any harm
sex IS basically like humping! If you're on top you'll be perfectly fine.


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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 9th 2011, 11:42 PM

The only problem I can see with humping is if you are ever grinding with a girl, it could cause you to have a premature ejaculation, since that's the way you usually masturbate. But of course, it all depends on whether or not you masturbate for pleasure, or for the intention of reaching an orgasm, and whether you edge it or not.

It's funny to think of how important it is, but the way you jerk off can decide if you have premature orgasms during sex, or have possible future erectile dysfunctions.
   
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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 10th 2011, 12:41 AM

Thank you all for answering my question. I feel relieved knowing you guys could help, because although I tried searching google, yahoo and any other search engines none were helpful, all with joking advice like "It'll fall off" so I'm glad I've finally found the asnwer. Thanks again



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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 10th 2011, 12:49 AM

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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 10th 2011, 04:25 AM

it is normal to do the things that you are doing it wont hurt you at all. everyones method is different and it wont cause you to have difficulty in the future your only 13 you will change your ways before you have sex dont worry its all good!!


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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 10th 2011, 12:36 PM

[quote=Sythan;637986] Masturbate to the point of orgasm then switch hands or use a banana as a makeshift orifice.[/quote]

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Re: Male Masturbation, akward question. - May 11th 2011, 10:55 PM

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