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Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 12:31 PM

My bf wants to try anal with me and i'm one for trying anything once and I was wondering if anyone can offer some tips how many ppl here do it often.

and has anyone done this with any who is on the large size if so is it painful and how long it too before it became nice
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 03:03 PM

I've tried anal sex before, and it was very painful in a certain position, but in another position it was less painful. I can't tell you what positions they were, as it's against the rules. I really don't like anal sex. But some girls really enjoy it! It's worth trying though, if you're comfortable with it. One tip I can give you is use lots and lots of lube. It's a tight area, and can hurt when dry. Also, try foreplay down there to warm you up a bit. Just like you would with regular sex.and of course, there is google that can give you more in depth tips that we're not allowed to give on teen help. Hope this helped!


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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 04:16 PM

I really like anal. My boyfriend is definitely on the larger side, and you basically just have to take it slow and make sure.the angle is right.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 05:25 PM

We can't give tips on the website--it's against the rules. However, anal sex can be painful. It's best to do some anal play before you jump into anal sex, such as fingering. It will help stretch it out. There is also a product called anal-ease, which names the anus from pain. Not sure how well it works, I've never tried it. But, make sure you use lube to help make it stretch a little easier.

It does get better, but it will be painful the first few times. Your body just isn't used to it.











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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 05:47 PM

I've done anal a few times. Last time really hurt me, so we haven't done it since, but my boyfriend loves it. Just relax, work up to it (use fingers first), & use lots of lube. Lube is your best friend here.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 06:25 PM

I just want to toss in here that products like anal ease are a really really really bad idea. Cannot emphasize that enough. Because they have a numbing agent (which in theory sounds great) you can seriously hurt yourself. You're much better off with lots of lube and communication.

Anal can be lots of fun if you take it slow and talk it through. Good luck.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 07:10 PM

I know this is a odd question but how far in could he go, I've heard from friend that 10inchs is the max....i apologise in advance if i can't ask a question like this
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 07:23 PM

If he's bigger than ten inches, then holy crap lol.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 20th 2011, 07:45 PM

yes he is, he is12 and it ok i've found the answer to my question now
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 21st 2011, 04:24 AM

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I know this is a odd question but how far in could he go, I've heard from friend that 10inchs is the max....i apologise in advance if i can't ask a question like this
Not sure, but I don't know if you even want him to go all the way in. It really does hurt for a while. It takes some getting used to. I mean, I did it like four times & I think my boyfriend only went in all the way like once? & It hurttt.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 21st 2011, 06:17 AM

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I just want to toss in here that products like anal ease are a really really really bad idea. Cannot emphasize that enough. Because they have a numbing agent (which in theory sounds great) you can seriously hurt yourself. You're much better off with lots of lube and communication.
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Re: Anal sex - September 21st 2011, 09:37 AM

Don't worry i won't be using anything like that and it would be pointless using that coz then I won't know where it feel nice or not
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 21st 2011, 08:14 PM

Thank you all for ur replys it really did help
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 24th 2011, 02:11 AM

Since that was your first time having an anal sex it could be painful but afterwards you really enjoy it and really feels great and for sure both of you enjoy this experience.
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 24th 2011, 11:06 AM

It was quiet at first but nice aswell i'll will be trying this again lol
   
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Re: Anal sex - September 25th 2011, 04:33 AM

Hey-

I recently tried this, and honestly I've done it a few times now, and I actually kind of enjoy it.

My best advice, is if it hurts too bad for you to handle, tell him. Push him off if you have to make the point of how bad it hurts. But put yourself in control and work slowly. I don't think this is too graphic, but my best advice is sit on his lap. Having him do something that you really enjoy while this is happening as well, helps it be more enjoyable for you, and something else for you to focus on as well.

Just take it slow. Some people, it's really not their thing, don't push it if it's not yours. Sex should be enjoyable, not something that's painful and you dread, y'know?



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