Non-PG13: HOW TO FIX THAT FEELING

[victoriabankson]

omg every night i get this ace down there and i get all horny and turned on and idk what to do ive tried to you know play but i just cant break so i end up stay up trying to fill this demand my body's making if i have sex will it go away or what does my body want sex im so confused and i don't want to tell anyone that i know cuz well idk what people would say and there n way i could ask my mother she's just so weird bout the sex topic. can any one help please. wheat should i do so this will stop bugging me.

whats causing my body to do this to me i mean i talk to guys at night but normally its nothing sexual just they like to compliment me. idk its not pain full just annoying and sometime it will happen at school and god whats causing this.

( sorry if this was confusing)

[Aletheia*]

You're 14. What you're experiencing is called hormones. Everyone has them, and once you hit the teen years, they go crazy. It doesn't mean you should have sex.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Even though you're hormonal, doesn't mean you should have sex, just as Shannon said. Although a lot of people say listen to your heart, I say listen to your mind when it comes to sex. Your body may feel ready, but it doesn't mean you're emotionally ready.

[victoriabankson]

things have changed i could care less btou the sex its just in so sick and tired of beign horny or what ever and how do i fix that with out having to play with myself and all the idea of touchign myself kinda freaks me out and ideas

[Aletheia*]

Hormones aren't controllable.

[Nicole!]

If you start feeling that way again, try and figure out what is causing it and take a break from whatever it is. If it is talking to those guys, then just stop replying for a little while. There really isn't much you can do to stop it, as Shannon said it is hormones which you cannot stop.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by victoriabankson

things have changed i could care less btou the sex its just in so sick and tired of beign horny or what ever and how do i fix that with out having to play with myself and all the idea of touchign myself kinda freaks me out and ideas

You don't, really. I guess either give in & satisfy yourself or ignore it. I hate to say it, but sometimes you just can't make the horny feeling go away. There are times where I get horny, but I can't have sex & I don't masturbate, so I just deal with it. Everyone goes through puberty, so you're not alone.

[ShareThisDragon]

Don't be freaked out, its totally normal to have sexual urges, it does not mean you need to run out and actually have sex with someone. It probably means you might want to do some reading on female masturbation (self-pleasure) techniques. Erm, its not always intuitive, especially for ladies, so really do some reading. Internet sources and books are both fair game, but I'm talking about text sources, no porno please because that's often just misleading. You can use your hands and/or consider getting a vibrator. Some people enjoy the water from a bathtub faucet.
Oh, and another reason I don't think having sex is the answer to this problem - most guys, especially young guys, have no idea how to actually treat you "down there" to make you feel good. You're better off figuring out on your own what you like and don't like. If and when you have a sexual partner in the future, then you can let that person know exactly what you like and it will be a better experience for all involved.

[Katrina123]

Its ok I get those 2. Hormones. Don't be afraid to explore ur body though. Its not something bad, its totaly natural for a teenager.