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December 5th 2011, 03:22 PM
i told my ex that i was really curious about how it would feel to really have sex with him and that i wish that we had. I mean technically we have but it only lasted like a minute each time due to drunkeness and other situations. He was like its never gonna happen and now I feel kinda stupid for even saying that...he says the reason is cos i still like him. How should I feel about this...i mean i know he is right that we can never have sex again unless we were actually dating in a relationship and at this time thats not gonna happen. Part of me just thought why not with the whole sex thing...its not like my numbers would go up. Any insight on this anyone?
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December 5th 2011, 05:57 PM
He isn't pursuing this because you like him still, or this is what he thinks anyway. It has nothing to do with numbers, or whatever you think it might mean. He's trying to keep you from getting attached to him again, which you'd likely do in the event that you have sex with him sober.
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December 5th 2011, 09:02 PM
It's not bad, you expressed your feelings towards him (still lustful) and he denied you. At this point, you just need to move on. There are other men out there who would be interested in you, and this time, keep alcohol out of the equation. Sex is terrible under the influence, plus it's not consensual either. Make a real connection, it's much more fun. And maybe you two can work out someday, just not right now.
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December 6th 2011, 08:48 PM
I think that maybe you should move on to a new person. Thats be honest hear, from what you've told me it sounds like you guys wont be having a relationship anytime soon so why sit there and tortcher yourself about 'how would it feel' or 'how would it be' or any other questions. Your way better off finding someone that you really like, and that likes you back to maybe do something with.
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December 6th 2011, 09:18 PM
I think that if you end up having sex with him, you would get more attached and it would only make it harder for you to get over him.
I definitely think you need to move on and talk to other people. |
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