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January 3rd 2012, 07:30 AM
During masturbation.. I feel this pain in my lower abdomen and my bottom. It's not like a stabbing pain.. it's more like a really strong pressure. And, it hurts. But, like I get nothing out of it. I'm a virgin. Sure. It's gonna hurt. But, either way... it's supposed to feel pleasurable and I absolutely hate it. I can do clitoral masturbation/simulation but, vaginal.. it's pointless and hurts me? Is it supposed to be that way? Is sex gonna be the same? Like I said, I know if you're a virgin.. it can hurt. I'm not completely clueless. Just confused. lol
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January 3rd 2012, 08:18 AM
You shouldn't be in pain during masturbation. Sex can be painful for virgins but it isn't too bad I promise and you'll get used to it.
Are you going gentle and slow? Sometimes if you are 'dry' it can cause pain.  Buddy|Live Help Operator|HelpLink Mentor|Social Networking Team Relationships&Dating Mod|Lifestyle Mod|Media&Entertainment Mod Performance Committee |
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January 3rd 2012, 08:39 AM
Yeah, I am. And, I used lubricant. So, I wasn't.
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January 5th 2012, 04:04 AM
Well, I'm gonna comment on this again... cause, well I can't find anything on Google. Help?
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January 5th 2012, 04:45 AM
Well this may be something to bring up with your doctor the next time you go. I'll do some searching and let you know if I find anything
 Maybe you just aren't going at the right angle? It took me awhile before I could use tampons because of this. Buddy|Live Help Operator|HelpLink Mentor|Social Networking Team Relationships&Dating Mod|Lifestyle Mod|Media&Entertainment Mod Performance Committee |
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January 5th 2012, 04:56 AM
even with lube it might still be uncomfortable if your body isn't naturally aroused some. Are you feeling your hymen? That could be the cause of your pain and as much as it hurts it could be better to break it yourself. But thats a very personal choice.
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January 6th 2012, 07:13 PM
I'm thinking you might be going in at the wrong angle, because I had a similar problem the first few times. I would just go slowly, make sure you're really relaxed, and I'm not sure what you're using for penetration, but if you're using a foreign object, it might just be that you're body isn't used to the size, and it could be causing the pain. You could try starting with something smaller, like your fingers, and working up. If you reply with more information, I'll be happy to try to help more.
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