Any other girls self conscious on top?

[niente_]

I feel like I'm no good at it! I know he's had more experience that me and I feel like I can't match up. When I get on top I want to rock his world but I feel like I'm doing it wrong or something and I get really embarrassed and uncomfortable.

Getting me down a bit. Anyone else ever felt like this?

[Le bonheur*]

Yes. I think it's normal to feel self conscious. It's new and you want to be the best at it and make an impression on him. Don't worry, you'll get more comfortable with it in time and you'll know exactly what to do/what he wants you to do.

[Koharuchan]

I'm like that too, I really am not that good at it. However, my boyfriend likes it, so we have practiced, with him helping me move the way he likes and I'm getting the hang of it a bit. It just takes a little practice.

[Aletheia*]

I'm like this too, but after a while, I realize that I'm completely in control. It's normal to feel self-conscious about it. He's likely not even thinking "Oh, she's doing it wrong". He's probably loving the fact that he can lie back, relax and let you do all the work for a change.

[aloharocker]

I hate being on top. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, we live together, the whole bit and I'll do just about anything but be on top I think we've done that once, ever and I was a little bit drunk at the time.

[Revolution]

Yup, you're totally normal. I am the exact same way. I've gotten the hang of it a bit, but at first, it's really scary. I feel like my boobies are floppin and that I'm doing something wrong...I don't know. But he enjoys it, so I try.

I'd recommend just use communication, you know? Ask him if what you're doing is good, and ask for tips. You can also do checks during the intercourse, say it sexy, you know? "Is that good?" If he shrugs, not good. If he does that "I can't talk right now you're rocking my world" face, probably a good thing.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

I used to be, but he likes me being on top more than anything else, so I'm just going to assume it's all good.

[Nicole!]

Oooh! Pick me!
I hate being on top. Like I really hate it. My boyfriend is nice about it and everything, but still makes fun of me sometimes, saying he has to teach me how. Its not that I don't know how exactly, its just I feel like I can't do it right
Just know that you aren't alone

[MacGuffin]

I've never really been self conscious about it, not since the first two times I had sex. The thing is, you're a girl, and one he is presumably attracted to. He thinks you are a hot stuff. So the view he gets with you on top, not to mention the feeling of it, is mind blowing. A lot of girls get self conscious about how they look or what they might be doing wrong, but it's mostly not worth worrying about. The appearance thing is silly- like I said, he already thinks you are hot, so there is no need to be worried that he thinks you look unsexy or something like that. The rest just takes a little practice, like anything else when it comes to sex. Hopefully he'll be patient and help you out with it. Just let him know your worries, relax, and allow yourself to be at peace with it and practice more often. Before you know it, you'll get the hang of it.