Haven't had sex in a long while?

[SamMarie]

I'm just going to go straight to the point... I haven't had sex in over a year.. maybe about a year and half. My new boyfriend and I have talked about foreplay a lot and he has talked about fingering. He asked me if I was still "tight" down there. Thing is, I'm not a frequent masturbator and like I said I haven't had sex in a long while. I don't know if there's such a thing where someone in my position could still be tight down there or not because of the factors that I stated. Is it possible since I'm still rusty since there hasn't been action that I could be tight and it could hurt a bit because of this? I'm kinda hoping that I am.

[Chris.]

I think that the muscles can tense up to a certain degree - but I doubt it will be like it was when you first had sex (or masturbated). I'm sure the feeling will still be good and pleasurable after not having sex for a 1 1/2.

Next time he talks about it, maybe mess with him. "Are you still tight down there?", "I dont know - maybe you should find out?".




Best wishes,
Chris

[Aletheia*]

Since it's been a while since you engaged in any kind of intimacy, you'll probably be very tight. It won't be like losing your virginity again, but following these tips will help ensure that it won't be as painful

• LOTS of foreplay.
• If you aren't getting "wet" enough down there, buy some waterbased lubes to help you out. No shame in it.
• Don't be nervous. Tensing up or being nervous could make the PC muscles contract, making it hard for him to penetrate you, either through foreplay or intercourse

[Revolution]

Yeah, your pelvic muscles are things that need to be worked out as any other muscles. Trust me, being in a long distance relationship, I've noticed intercourse is a bit more...I don't know, each time is a bit awkward at first because I don't frequently do any g-spot stimulation masturbation, only clitoral, so the vaginal muscles get no exercise. But honestly, lots of foreplay really helps, and don't be afraid of the lube. It's magic.

[Hollifire]

Honestly if I even go a few weeks without sex I notice that I'm a bit tighter & that first sexual encounter it almost feels like I'm a virgin again, but I've always been tight. Just make sure you do a lot of foreplay to get yourself ready, maybe even use some lube if you're not getting wet enough. Most of all though, remember to just have fun. Try not and be nervous (:

[bitesize]

Personally I get tight very quickly after no sex ~ I went five months without it two years ago and despite what the others have said it was like losing my virginity again when I next had it ~ I even bled. There is a probability that you'll be tighter but it mightn't necessarily hurt, everyone is different. If you're a little worried, try and 'stretch yourself out' a bit in your own time leading up to it!!

[Shawn K.]

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