Triggering: Miscarrage

[medic2013]

I was at the doctor last thursday and everything was fine. They did test and eveything to try to findout what was going on with me. On Friday night really late, i started feeling really bad and they said for me to comein today so they could check me out again. Saturday came around and I was actually starting to feel worse. They called my doctor and she said she would meet us at the hosptial. She started checking me out. She ordered a ultrasound and when they did the ultrasound, they foundout that I had lost my baby. We didn't have any idea we was pregant. I didn't have any kind of symptoms or nothing. She had gave me some medication and they kept me for awhile and sent me home. They told me that they wanted to do a D&C today. They came in and done my D&C. I can't wait till they let me go home tomorrow because I miss my own bed so bad.

[Not_here]

Wow Amanda I'm lost for words. I know how much you wanted a baby and you were trying for so long. Take the time you need to get through this but don't lose hope. Keep fighting

[medic2013]

Ive been trying. Today was even harder for me.

I finally got home today around 1pm. I was so glad to see my own house. Im still sore.

I'm sorry about your miscarriage.

You said you have PCOS, I suggest you speak to your OBGYN or primary care about that. There's ways to ensure a healthy pregnancy, where the baby is carried to term, in a woman with PCOS.

[medic2013]

Its ok. Ive been talking to my doctor and they are going to try to help make the next one easier on me and watch me like crazy.

[Astrophile.]

Hey,

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know and understand how painful it is. I've endured a miscarriage myself, and it was the hardest thing in the world. I just want you to know that it'll get better. My miscarriage was six years ago, and I still struggle with the thoughts of wanting my baby back, but it's gotten a lot easier as I cope with it. I've named my baby and gave her a memorial service. It might seem silly to some people, but it's honestly the best thing I've ever done. Each year on her "due date" I go to a river nearby and send off a letter in it. I think it's the best thing I could have done since coming to terms with what has happened.

I'm glad that you have talked to your doctor about future pregnancies. It's important that they keep an eye out on you and your future babies for protection. Now that they know the possibilities, they'll be more able to help you out.

I hope that you're doing okay. If you need anything at all, feel free to PM me. I'd be happy to help.

Take care.

[medic2013]

I just got back home yesterday. I had to go back to the hospital amd they admitted me. So i havent had time to think about anything yet

[Shaydow_Mythstyque]

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage and I wish you didn't have to go through that. I know how it feels. I'm 15 1/2 and I had a miscarriage when I was 14. It's the worst feeling ever. I still think about what I could have done to save my baby or what I did wrong when I was pregnant.

[Flight.]

Hi there,

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

If you need anything, just let me know.

Take care.

[medic2013]

Im doing the best that i can. Not sure how to handle things anymore since this happened. Ive been staying sad and depressed

[hopefuldreamer]

I am so sorry for your loss. I also have PCOS and I had 3 miscarriages before I had my son. I thought the day would never come, but it did. Don't give up hope, talk to your doctors you do have options. I am always here if you want someone to talk to. I understand how hard what you are going through is, but don't give up hope.

[medic2013]

I have to go back to the doctor in a few weeks because she is worried about how i am handing everything that has happened to me

[hopefuldreamer]

I hope your doctors appointment goes well just be completely honest with them about how you are handling everything and how you feel so they can provide you with the best help possible.

[L4Y]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you the best and hope your doctor is able to help. Take good care.

[medic2013]

Thanks, I just hope that my bloodwork is back to normal when I go back.